For three anniversaries in a row, we’ve somehow found ourselves on our way to Paris. It doesn’t even feel real typing that—lol!
(Technically, we’d been to Paris once before… but we never even saw the Eiffel Tower. In March 2020, we were on our first European trip together when COVID broke out. We had to buy an emergency flight home, which left from Paris. Paris had originally been on our itinerary, but we were visiting Carly in Germany when everything escalated. We quickly took a train to Paris, checked into a hotel just long enough to shower and take a quick nap, then headed straight to the airport, hoping to make it out before the quarantine guidelines were enacted. As you can probably guess, this trip doesn’t really count.)
In March 2023, we had only been living in Brussels for about six weeks, but we knew we wanted to celebrate our first year of marriage in the city of love. And we went all out. A fancy hotel with a balcony facing the Eiffel Tower, exquisite dinner reservations, a photo shoot with a photographer I had been following for years, a boat ride down the Seine, a half-day in the Louvre, put a lock on the lock bridge, see Moulin Rouge, and more. It was a full-fledged, very touristy, three-day/two-night itinerary. We experienced Paris in quite a unique way………right in the middle of one of their largest strikes. Trash was piling up, rats were running through the streets, fires were burning, and protesters were marching. We originally booked train tickets but had to drive last-minute due to the transit strike. Despite the chaos, we had a great time and made some unforgettable memories.
In March 2024, we decided to return for just one night. This time we drove up on Saturday morning, no set agenda, and wandered the city from east to west and north to south, hitting all the major attractions along the way. Because of the upcoming Summer Olympics, many statues were covered for cleaning and several areas were blocked off, but we still managed to have a lovely meal and even reenacted a photo from our first anniversary trip.
On Sunday, we visited the Palace of Versailles—something we didn’t have time for the first time around. I’m so glad we made it happen. Walking through a former royal residence commissioned by King Louis XIV and exploring the ornate royal gardens was such a breathtaking experience. The Palace and Park of Versailles have been a UNESCO World Heritage Site since 1979, and now I understand why.
My favorite room was the Hall of Mirrors, pictured below.
When we found out my expat assignment was being extended and realized we’d still be living nearby during our third anniversary, Paris felt… inevitable.
So, in March 2025, we decided to do it the European way: by taking the train there for just the day! The ride from Brussels-Midi to Paris Gare du Nord is only 1 hour and 22 minutes on the Eurostar—crazy, right?!
From the moment we left our house to when we arrived at the Eiffel Tower, only three hours had passed. We picked up pastries and sandwiches from a bakery and sat in the sunshine at Place du Trocadéro with the Eiffel Tower in sight.
We spent the day lollygagging around, with no reservations or plans! The weather was absolutely amazing – sunny all day long.
We also got the chance to snap a photo in front of the iconic Olympic rings—so cool! Fun fact: the five ring colors were chosen because at least one of them appears on every national flag in the world.
Our wedding day truly was the best day of our lives—a total cliché, I know, but one you don’t fully understand until you live it. This tradition of ours has been such a meaningful part of our marriage. Every year on March 19, we take the time to reflect on where we’ve been and where we’re going—as individuals and as a couple.
Disclaimer: I’ve already been told that Paris may not be on the table for our fourth anniversary…but hey, a girl can dream 😉
Now that our time on this side of the world is winding down, I knew I had to be strategic with the last few trips we could squeeze in. My dad also wanted to visit one more time, so I turned to my bucket list to see what he would enjoy. One word immediately jumped out as the perfect destination for his January visit: Lapland.
Lapland is a region that spans across Finland, Sweden, Norway and Russia and is famous for chasing the Northern Lights (Aurora) and all things winter. There are many areas to explore, but Brussels’ south airport conveniently adds a seasonal flight to Rovaniemi (Finland) from December through February. Rovaniemi is the capital of Lapland, home to the official Santa Claus Village, and lies at 66 degrees north latitude.
Once the flights were booked, the first order of business was figuring out how to properly handle the cold. Every time I mentioned to European friends or colleagues that we were heading to Lapland, they strongly advised dressing as warmly as possible, warning that it would be the coldest place I’d ever been. What’s funny is that they seemed to forget I’m from Chicago—I grew up in freezing winter climates!
Nonetheless, packing for this trip was a full operation. Thankfully, I have a Finnish friend in Brussels who lent me proper boots, wool socks, gloves, and other essentials. We also bought two sets of thermal undergarments with heating technology. While plenty of people looked effortlessly stylish, I prioritized warmth. Each day, I bundled up in snow pants and three layers of clothes. Still, I had to add a little flair—so I found some fun hats and oversized earmuffs to keep a touch of winter fashion.
Our adventure began with a frigid -22°C (-7.6°F) welcome. First stop: Santa Claus Village. Naturally, we gave in to the classic tourist trap of taking a photo with Santa – we decided that we will tell our future children that we were invited by Santa himself because of our good behavior.
Here we also visited the official Santa Claus Post Office. After every trip, we send postcards to our parents (and sometimes friends and other family), so it was a special experience to write them from this festive setting. You can choose to have your postcard mailed the next day or held until just before Christmas! (Though with European post, those two options might as well be the same.)
Then we crossed the official Arctic Circle, got to feed and pet reindeer, and stumbled upon a cozy teepee with a crackling fire, so we sat inside to warm up. Ben ran to buy some hot dogs, and we roasted them over the fire—a simple but perfect moment in such a remote corner of the world with two of my favorite people.
Later that evening, I unintentionally doubled down on my reindeer experience—this time on my plate (sorry, Rudolph).
I always make it a point to try a traditional meal on my first night in a new country, and Arctic Restaurant did not disappoint. The town we stayed in was tiny, almost more of a village, but our Airbnb was perfectly located just minutes from the center.
Over six days, we successfully visited every coffee shop, souvenir store, and restaurant in town. One of my biggest shocks was the high prices—at one café, two cappuccinos and two muffins cost 24.50 euros, while in Brussels, the same would cost maybe 14 euros. Luckily, we found a more reasonably priced café that became our go-to, its warm cinnamon twists smell drawing us in every time.
Last minute, we decided to rent a car so we could chase the Northern Lights on our own each night. Having a car also gave us the flexibility to explore further. While my dad took a day to rest and recover from jet lag, Ben and I drove through snowy roads to hike at Korouoma Canyon.
As we neared our destination, I started researching the trail and learned that encounters with bears, wolves, and lynxes weren’t uncommon. Fantastic!!! We quickly decided to leave all food in the car—just in case. Upon arrival, we rented ice spikes (a necessity for the slippery terrain and elevation changes). The hike was alongside stunning—frozen waterfalls and pure, untouched snow.
We barely saw another soul in the three hours we were out there, and the remoteness was breathtaking.
We ended our hike at a small cabin, where a sweet elderly Finnish man served us tea and cake. He told us that although he had never left Finland, he had met people from all over the world. We signed the guest book and pinned Chicago on the world map. Finnish people aren’t big on small talk or smiling at strangers, but I managed to get him to give me a smile before we left. I felt like I was in some sort of Hallmark movie!
Other classic winter activities we participated in were snowmobiling and husky sledding—both of which ended up being trip highlights. We were given proper gear and got all bundled up!
Fresh snow had fallen for nearly 12 hours, making the conditions perfect.
The ride started through sparse, lightly snow-dusted trees, but soon we entered a dense forest where even the tallest of trees were completely covered in thick white snow. It was like stepping into a winter wonderland. I took a few pictures and videos, but then put my phone away to soak it all in.
The next day was the moment we had been waiting for—husky sledding!!! I had visited a husky training center in Northern Sweden during the previous summer, so I had learned about their diets, care, and boundless energy. At Apukka Husky Adventure in Rovaniemi, we got to be our own mushers—no guide on our sled!
I took the reins first, and as soon as our five huskies were harnessed, they went wild, barking and lunging forward as if yelling, “Let’s go already!” Our lead dogs were sisters, an alpha male held the middle, and the two back runners were also sisters. Before it was confirmed, Ben and I joked that the back-right husky was definitely female—every time we had to brake for spacing, she threw us the sassiest side-eye.
When it was my turn to be the passenger, I sat on the sled guided by my husband and pulled by these 5 amazing dogs and it was just so surreal.
After years of running around European cities, arriving and leaving exhausted, this trip felt different. Not to sound too “Nature is healing,” but… nature is healing. I was fully present—grateful for this adventure and the company of Ben and my dad.
After the ride, we were able to play and hold the baby huskies! They were 7 months old, and are set to begin the multi-year training process soon!
Aside from excursions, I also cherished our downtime. We played games, read books, and hopped in the car nightly, loaded with snacks and Northern Lights trackers.
We stood by lakes and along deserted roads, surrounded by pitch-black wilderness, the constellations illuminating the sky above us. Though clouds blocked the typical swirling green ribbons of the aurora, we did see faint green lights one night—enough to cross it off the bucket list. (Still, I guess I’ll just have to go to Iceland or something one day to see them properly!)
I am incredibly grateful for my dad’s two week visit. My heart is full after this trip and the time together. I would definitely recommend Lapland to anyone looking for an adventure – but be sure to book far in advance and make reservations for everything!
2024 was a whirlwind, to say the least—a year absolutely packed with magical moments, personal growth, and unforgettable experiences. As we step into 2025, I know it will bring yet another year of change. My expat assignment ends at the end of May, and with it, so does this unique chapter of life abroad. Everyone warned me about how quickly this time would fly by, and wow, they weren’t kidding!
Before I dive headfirst into 2025 and all its uncertainties, I wanted to pause and reflect on the year that was. That’s one reason I love having this blog—it forces me to slow down and thoughtfully document my experiences to share with my friends and family. So, let’s take a look back at 2024, by the numbers:
✈️ 22 flights: Over the course of the year, I spent 3 days and 4 hours in the air, traveling a total of 32,181 miles—that’s 1.3x around the world! These adventures took me through 8 incredible countries: Denmark, Italy (twice), the U.S., Sweden, Austria, Netherlands, France, Luxembourg, and Tanzania. Out of those, 5 were new countries for me (Denmark, Sweden, Austria, Luxembourg, and Tanzania). Austria marked my 30th country, allowing me to complete my goal of reaching 30 countries before turning 30.
🏡 13 Visitors: We hosted so many loved ones this year! Elia kicked off the visits in March, followed by Savannah and Ian in Copenhagen in April. Jossue and his brother swung by in May, and then Alex and Sam stopped in Brussels before we headed on our girls’ trip to Austria. Marisa joined me in Milan, Sarah and Zach explored Belgium for a week, our moms visited at separate times, and Ben’s friends filled in the gaps. I love how much joy these visits brought to our year!
💍 3 Weddings: May was filled with love and family time as we flew to NYC for my cousin Abbey’s wedding, then drove to Virginia to see my mom/grandma, then flew to Chicago for Ariana’s wedding where I was a bridesmaid. Then I flew back to Chicago for just a few days in October to be a bridesmaid in Rachel’s wedding. While we couldn’t attend every wedding we were invited to, we’re so happy for all our friends and family who tied the knot this year!
🎶 3 Concerts – In February, we saw Noah Kahan at a small venue in Belgium. He is absolutely my favorite artist right now – I just love his vibe (he was also my number one most listed to artist for 2024). I also went to Taylor Swift’s Eras tour which was so incredible! I wouldn’t consider myself a “Swiftie” by any means, but anyone who can perform for 3.5 hours in a row every night deserves some credit. Another reason I love her is because I felt like I’ve grown up listening to her music – her surprise song was a song I listened to when I had my first heartbreak and it brought me right back to those feelings. I also went 1 day to Tommorowland which is one of the most famous music festivals in the world, and one of the hardest to get tickets to. This experience was unlike anything else, and we walked over 34,000 steps that day!
🤕 1 Concussion: Not all adventures are successful ones. In 2024, I learned the hard way that some risks just aren’t worth it. During a work event that I planned at an adventure park, I attempted a free fall jump, landed incorrectly, and spent days in the dark nursing a concussion. Lesson learned—2025 will include fewer high-risk “fun” ideas!
📸 48 Favorite Photos: Choosing my top four photos from each month was a challenge, given the 17,000 photos currently living on my camera roll! But this exercise reminded me just how amazing this year was:
We threw a farewell party for our friend Burcu, moved into our new apartment, enjoyed a rare snowy day with Mallow, and cheered on Ben in his hockey semi-finals.We hosted a combined housewarming and birthday party for Ben’s 27th, saw Noah Kahan live, and soaked up cozy evenings at home with Mallow.We visited Versailles and Paris, showed Elia around Bruges (my favorite town in Belgium), and celebrated more hockey wins.I spent quality time with my girls in Brussels, explored Copenhagen with Savannah and Ian, and celebrated Finnish Independence Day.A work trip to Venice turned into a mini-vacation when Ben joined me at the end. Later, we took a U.S. road trip for two weddings, saw family, and I finally got to meet my best friend’s daughter, Gwen!We celebrated Ariana and Jerry’s wedding, I went on a work trip to Northern Sweden then met Ben in Stockholm for the weekend, and Andrew/Ben surprised Silvia/I with a salsa dancing double date.Visitors, concerts, and new experiences filled this hectic yet incredible month. It was hard on the bank account but so worth it!A life-changing trip to Tanzania included a safari and an island escape to Zanzibar. Ben’s mom also visited for the third time—our most frequent guest!We hiked with Mallow, cheered on the Bears (who lost, as usual), and then I headed to Chicago at the tailend of the month where I had a quick coffee with Hannah and Gwen + FINALLY got to meet Carly’s baby, Karson.Rachel’s wedding day was incredible and we felt like celebrities walking through downtown Chicago all dressed up. I saw Ariana for a few hours and popped by Gwen’s 1st birthday before heading to the airport. Back in Brussels, we celebrated my friend Laura who turned 30!This was the first month of no travel in awhile. Ben actually planned a surprise trip to Sicily, but we decided to cancel and stay at home because I was so exhausted. We spent our weekends with friends and hosted 14 people for Thanksgiving!My mom joined us for a magical Christmas market road trip through Belgium, Luxembourg, and France. We ended the year with a quiet Christmas at home with just Ben, Mallow, and me.
Reflections on 2024
Of course, not every moment was easy. Spending Christmas just the two of us, while peaceful, felt a little lonely. I also pushed myself too hard balancing work, travel, and hosting, which caught up with me by the fall. And as we look to 2025, there are so many uncertainties—where we’ll live, what our careers will look like, and how we’ll navigate the challenges of returning to the U.S.
But through it all, I’ve learned so much about myself, Ben, and what we want out of life. These “Brussels Bubble” years have been transformative. Our relationship has deepened as we’ve leaned on each other in ways we never had before. I can’t believe we’ve been together for 8 years (as of 1/1/25) — I can’t imagine this life without him.
The 20s are a wild ride full of growth, love, and chaos. One of my goals for this upcoming year is to embrace the twists and turns that 2025 has in store.
If you made it this far, thanks for reading! Love and best wishes to all my friends and family for 2025.
I cannot believe we have already reached the end of the year! I already feel like I have celebrated Christmas, because earlier this month my mom visited for 10 days and we spent most nights exploring different Christmas markets! This was her second time visiting me in Belgium – she came last April and we had an amazing trip to Prague.
Us in Prague – April 2023
I was so happy for her second visit, especially to show her our new apartment— new is a bit of a stretch considering it was built in the 1800s. Nonetheless, her last visit was when we lived in the city center…and now we live in a much calmer, more pleasant neighborhood. Mallow also thoroughly enjoyed her visit, showing her our favorite local places and how she gets to play off leash in the park. I’m pretty sure Mallow thought that my mom traveled all the way from Virginia just for her!
My mom and I had a bunch of ideas for when she should come and where we would visit together. There are endless places to travel, with so many direct flights leaving from Brussels each day. But when it came down to deciding on when and where to go, the idea of a road trip in December excited us both. If you’re planning a trip to Europe, the absolute best times to visit are (1) summer, of course, and (2) Christmastime. The holiday season here feels like stepping into a real-life snow globe, and it’s magical in a way that’s hard to describe until you experience.
Last December, Ben’s family visited, and we had an adventure through Germany’s iconic Christmas markets. This year with my mom, we decided to change it up and plan a Christmas market road trip that explored some new destinations.
Berlin Christmas markets – December 2023
What I love about European Christmas markets is how each one has its own unique vibe. Some are known for their incredible shopping, others for the festive food, and some are simply all about the atmosphere. Whether you’re there to sip mulled wine with friends or tackle your holiday shopping list, there’s truly something for everyone. Naturally, we were on a mission to experience it all—and rank the markets, of course!
Stop 1: Brussels Christmas Market
We started with our very own Brussels Christmas markets. I’ll admit that Brussels isn’t usually at the top of most people’s travel lists, but during the holidays, it really shines 😉 In fact, the Brussels Christmas markets attract around 2.5 million visitors annually, which is pretty impressive. There are 240 chalets to explore, a Ferris wheel, merry-go-rounds, curling, an ice rink, and my personal favorite—a sound and light show at the Grand Place.
The Grand Place is one of my two favorite spots in Brussels (the other being Parc du Cinquantenaire).
It’s not only stunning but also a UNESCO World Heritage Site since 1998. My mom and I combed through every single booth while Ben patiently followed with a backpack for our purchases (he’s a saint.)
I will say, however, that I was disappointed they didn’t have the potato pancakes this year—a situation I believe warrants serious attention for 2025!
Stop 2: Luxembourg City Christmas Market
The next day, we drove 2.5 hours to Luxembourg City, marking my 32nd country visited! I didn’t have many expectations going in, but sometimes that’s the best way to travel. Luxembourg is a tiny European country bordered by Belgium, France, and Germany. I knew it’s one of the richest countries in the world (thanks to its high GDP per capita), offers free public transportation, and is a popular spot for Belgians to stock up on tax-free alcohol. Beyond that, I had no idea what to expect, but I was pleasantly surprised!
The city had five Christmas markets, all within walking distance. With around 100 chalets, the atmosphere was cozy and festive, with plenty of spots to warm up by a fire, grab a drink, or enjoy live music.
These markets attract around 1.2 million visitors annually, and we loved how manageable and charming they were. Luxembourg was initially just a stop to break up the drive, but we ended up really enjoying our time there!
Stop 3: Strasbourg Christmas Market
The next day, we hit the road for another 2.5 hours to Strasbourg, France, the self-proclaimed “Capital of Christmas.” Almost every “Top 10 Christmas Markets in Europe” list puts Strasbourg in the top three, so our expectations were high. It didn’t disappoint!
Main markets are right in front of the famous cathedral!
Dating back to 1570, Strasbourg’s market is the oldest in France and one of the oldest in all of Europe. With over 300 chalets spread across the city, Strasbourg Christmas markets attract more than 2 million visitors each year. We spent two full days here, shopping until we dropped (again- shoutout Ben and his backpack for the assistance).
Strasbourg is famous for their teddy bear Christmas decorations!
My favorite purchase was a small Christmas house modeled after a real Strasbourg building. Last year, we bought a similar one in Germany with Ben’s family, and now we’ve started a tradition. These little houses will be cherished keepsakes forever.
To balance out the hectic market energy, I booked us a hotel with a wellness spa. If we weren’t at the market, we were indulging in the heated pool, sauna, and hammam before heading out for more shopping and mulled wine. Highly recommend!
Stop 4: Colmar Christmas Market
On our last full day, we drove an hour to Colmar, France, a town often said to resemble Belle’s village in Beauty and the Beast. While Disney has never confirmed it as an inspiration, the charming streets definitely feel like stepping into a storybook.
The Colmar Christmas markets featured 180 chalets, but it was so crowded that we only stayed an hour. (Note to self: avoid Saturday visits!) Social media has undeniably amplified Colmar’s popularity, and while the town is beautiful, it’s not quite built to handle the masses. That said, I’ve heard others who visited on quieter days had a wonderful experience, so timing is everything!
Back to Brussels
On Sunday, we drove back to Brussels in time for my mom to catch one of Ben’s hockey games. She even brought a handmade poster all the way from The States! It was her first time seeing him on the ice, and we chanted and cheered the whole game. The team thought it was really funny!
The next few days, we stayed local, revisiting the Brussels markets (yes, again!) and splitting some delicious food. On her last day, I treated her to my favorite place, Waer Waters, which is a well-known wellness spa within the region. With 23 saunas, 24 pools, and 10 relaxation rooms, it’s easy to see why I’m obsessed. We stuck to the dressed area—although the undressed area is the more popular choice here in Europe. There’s no phones allowed, so you are really forced to unwind for the day. We had hot stone massages, a salt cave experience, and had an amazing meal (delivered by a robot) in between the swimming. It was the perfect way to wrap up an amazing trip, and to decompress before we both had to return to work.
Final Thoughts
Ben and I absolutely loved having my mom here right before the holidays. Although it’ll just be the two of us for Christmas Day, it’s sandwiched between her visit and my dad’s upcoming trip in January, so we’re feeling grateful. And who knows? This might be our last quiet Christmas for a while, so we’re going to soak it all in.
Europe in December is pure magic, and this trip was no exception. If you’re ever considering a Christmas market road trip, I can’t recommend it enough—it’s an experience you’ll never forget.
Disclaimer: there was a recent terrorist attack at a Christmas market in Germany. I have mixed feelings about posting in an effort to be sensitive to the world around me. No family should have to go to the Christmas markets and come home without a member…it is a dark and scary world we live in. I feel very grateful that we got to experience it innocently. Life is precious and it’s difficult to not live in fear when terrible things like this occur.
Yesterday I turned 27, officially joining the “upper 20s” club! It’s funny to think back on how I once believed people at this age had everything figured out. I also imagined I’d be a mother by now and certainly never thought I’d be living in Europe.
Reflecting on the past year, I’m amazed by the experiences I’ve had and the things I’ve accomplished. I checked off the number one item on my bucket list: hot air ballooning in Cappadocia. I visited six new countries, hosted nine visitors, stood by four of my beautiful friends on their wedding days, joined one of those brides on part of her honeymoon in Greece, prioritized my health, earned an “Exceeds Expectations” on my performance review, and made countless memories in Brussels.
Birthdays have always been significant for me, thanks to my mom, who always went above and beyond to make them special growing up (we’re talking ponies, water parks, camping, crowns, karaoke, etc.).
A picture of me on my 1st birthday….and we wonder why I am extra lol
Ben continues this tradition, and thanks to him I had an incredible birthday weekend! In our friend group here, three of us have birthdays in the same week. On Friday night, we celebrated at a Middle Eastern restaurant that serves food family style and turns into a party after 9 pm. Saturday was perfect: Ben and I went out to brunch, visited the farmers market, took a walk in my favorite park with Mallow, and he made me a southern meal with an adorable printed menu!
BBQ food is hard to find in Brussels, so he made his own BBQ sauce and found a butcher to get pork for slow cooking on the grill all afternoon. On Sunday, we visited Pairi Daiza, known as “Europe’s Best Zoo.” It was a unique experience, feeling like we were truly walking through the animals’ habitats rather than seeing them behind cages. A lemur almost jumped on my shoulder! My favorite animals were the elephants and the giant pandas. We ended the day with our favorite animal, Mallow.
I’m so grateful for the friends who celebrated with me, everyone who texted or called, and especially my husband for his thoughtfulness and efforts to make the weekend special. We’ve now celebrated (at least) one of each holiday here, just the two of us, and he always makes it memorable. Despite my worries about feeling homesick, I felt all the love and support from everyone important to me. Plus, I have visitors coming this week that I’m VERY excited about!
May and June were incredibly busy with work and personal travel. I spent a week in Italy for work in May with our Senior Leadership Program, then took a personal trip to NYC/NJ for a family wedding, road-tripped to Virginia to see my mom, grandma, and auntie, and then flew back to Chicago for another wedding! After returning, I went straight back to work and four days later left for a week in Sweden with our European Master Program.
There’s no slowing down in July either. (Are we shocked?) Two of my high school best friends (Alex and Sam) arrive this week, and we’re heading to Austria for a long weekend – Sound of Music tour, here we come! The following weekend, my friend Marisa and I will meet in Milan for Taylor Swift’s ERAS TOUR!!!! We’ll also take a day trip to the famous Lake Como. A few days after that, my cousin Sarah and her husband arrive, and we’re going to Amsterdam for the weekend. Although I don’t typically repeat cities, Amsterdam is one of my favorites and only a 2.5-hour car ride away! It will be both of their first times in Europe, and I am so excited to show them where we live. Then, the weekend after that, I’m going to Tomorrowland, one of the world’s largest and most exclusive electronic dance music festivals, which I somehow managed to get tickets to. Finally, my mother-in-law comes to visit the day after and I’m looking forward to the quality time together.
With so much happening in the world—the ongoing war in Ukraine, the crisis in Palestine, the uncertainty in America with the upcoming election— I acknowledge the privilege of such experiences and express my empathy towards those facing hardship. I make it my goal to never take any day of this life for granted. Thankful thankful thankful!
I am a really big believer that God has a plan & that the right thing will always happen.
On March 7, I broke out my journal for the first time in a long time to make a pros and cons list of staying in Europe verses moving back to America. While I’ve always known that this chapter in my life has an expiration date, there’s a certain magic in dreaming of staying forever in Europe. I wrote about how I need to shift my mindset back to the fact that I am only here temporarily, but how it would be nice to have just a biiiiit more time. Background: typically expat assignments at my company are 3 years long, however I initially expressed that I was only interested in a 2 year assignment (for some reason committing to 2 years felt a lot less intimidating than 3 years of my life).
Just a little bit over a week later on March 15, I was offered an extension on my assignment to stay through the end of May 2025 (instead of January 2025)!!! This came as a shock to me because my department already had a planned restructure for 2025, so I didn’t think there was even room for an extension. However the department is going to be having some internal changes and me staying a little bit longer will provide more stability and the chance to finish up on some of my projects. So now I get four more months of working and living in Europe! YAY!
I was really in awe when my boss asked me, I almost agreed to it on the spot! But then I was like OK Liv hold your horses, you need to discuss with Ben first. Honestly, I could’ve come home and he could’ve told me that he is already set to go home in January, which would’ve been totally fair. Instead, he was overjoyed, super proud of me, and excited to be able to play a second full season of hockey here. Although we both miss home, we realize that life here has a LOT to offer us.
Another exciting career-related thing that happened this week was that I met with Komatsu America to start the discussion about my future role upon returning home. They informed me that they will put together a full repatriation plan and I will know my start date, title, and all the other details by the end of this calendar year! That was such a relief to hear, considering 2025 feels like one big question mark to me. There is so much to figure out and sometimes I get overwhelmed if I think too far into the future. Next year is going to be filled with lots of life changes, but I am so thankful to do it all alongside Ben and the support of family and friends.
Shorter blog post today, but wanted to share this excited update with everyone following along ❤
January & February marked our first two months without any travel plans since our arrival. Thanks to Ben’s commitment to his hockey team here, our weekends have been spent at the ice rink. I love watching him out on the ice, but this decision to travel less was based solely on the hockey schedule 😉 However, after the whirlwind of last year, we have been embracing the rhythm of day-to-day life in Belgium, enjoying the simple pleasures of our surroundings. Not being bound by airport schedules every other weekend has its perks, and Mallow certainly seems relieved to see our suitcases tucked away on a shelf for a change.
Lately, I’ve been reflecting on just how different life is here compared to back home in The States. I’m oftentimes asked if I like living here compared to the US. It’s something that’s been on my mind a lot, and I want to share my thoughts and experiences with you all, no filter. The truth is, I’m starting to realize just how tough it’s going to be when we eventually head back (January 2025). If there was a way to just magically transport all my loved ones here, I’d probably never leave Europe! There’s just something about this place that’s got me hooked, and the thought of saying goodbye is seriously tough to swallow. There is a French word that perfectly describes this feeling…énouement.
Somewhere along the way, I lost track of the fact that I’m here on a two-year assignment, and it’s time to readjust my mindset. During my time here, I’ve encountered truths about life that have shifted my perspective on how it could—or perhaps should—be lived. While I’m always grateful to be an American and cherish the freedoms my country affords me, I want to share my honest thoughts on the differences I’m experiencing.
Food
In Belgium and throughout Europe, there’s a noticeable difference in the way food is produced compared to America. When I tell you that the produce is more colorful and different sizes and the meat tastes distinctly different I am not joking. Here, you won’t find the same level of reliance on hormones or GMOs that is pumped into our food in America. Drive throughs are rare, unless of course you’re on a road trip. The refrigerators are essentially the size of mini fridges, and the freezers are a drawer or two. Small fridges and limited pantry spaces encourages food to be fresh instead of frozen, and people shop at markets and smaller sized grocery stores.
Back home the phrase “my stomach hurts” was used all too often in our household. We had to make efforts to eat healthier to not have stomach pain, but the food here is naturally better for us. To give you an example…my MIL is gluten and dairy free. She maintains a regimented diet but when she comes to visit, she can eat ANYTHING she wants. In Europe, gluten processing adheres to stricter regulations and standards. European wheat varieties typically contain lower levels of gluten compared to American wheat varieties, which may contribute to differences in how gluten is processed and tolerated. European food laws often impose tighter restrictions on additives and processing techniques; overall, European food practices often prioritize transparency and quality. Our food back home is poisoned and there is basically nothing we can do about it. If you’re interested, check out this article about 10 hazardous additives that are banned in Europe but completely legal in the US….
All of this directly correlates to the obesity rates in America. According to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases
Nearly 1 in 3 US adults (30.7%) are overweight.
More than 2 in 5 US adults (42.4%) have obesity (including severe obesity).
About 1 in 11 US adults (9.2%) have severe obesity.
So when you see our backyard turned completely into a garden and I bring you fresh fruit/veggies every time I come over, don’t think I’m crazy!
Sustainability
Belgium has extensive waste sorting and recycling programs, with high rates of recycling across the country. The government incentivizes waste reduction and recycling through policies such as waste taxes and landfill bans on certain materials. We are obligated to sort our waste by:
Glass
Paper and cardboard
PMD waste
GFT and organic waste
Small hazardous waste
Old and expired medications
Building waste and rubble
Reusable textiles
Discarded electrical and electronic appliances
We have five different containers in our apartment (blue bag is plastics, first white bag is residual waste, second white bag is garden waste, yellow bag is paper and cardboard, & orange bag is food waste) and we have a public glass waste bin on our street where you deposit clear glass and colored glass separately. According to the US Environmental Protection Agency in Nov 2023, only 32% of America recycles. Seriously, are you kidding me? If you’re not recycling, I urge you to reconsider because each of us has a personal responsibility to care for our planet.
Additionally, Belgium has made significant investments in renewable energy sources such as wind, solar, and biomass. This country also prioritizes public transportation and urban planning strategies that promote sustainability, such as pedestrian-friendly city centers, efficient public transit networks, and infrastructure to support biking to work. Brussels has also implemented car-free zones and bike-sharing programs to reduce traffic congestion and emissions. My company offers an electric bike leasing program which has resulted in many employees coming to work by bike! It’s little changes like these that can make a big difference in the fight against climate change.
Another cool thing is that every year, my company gives each employee a 250 euro eco voucher. Eco vouchers are a form of payment used in Belgium to promote environmentally friendly purchases. These vouchers are provided by employers as a benefit to employees and can be used to purchase eco-friendly products and services, such as energy-efficient appliances, public transportation passes, organic food, and eco-friendly home improvement items. The Belgian government introduced eco vouchers as a way to encourage sustainable consumption and support businesses that offer environmentally friendly products and services. This system not only encourages individuals to be more sustainable in their purchasing habits but also provides them with the means to do so. Amazing!
Work/Life Balance
Work-life balance in Belgium is highly valued and prioritized, with ample vacation time, flexible working hours, and a strong emphasis on family life. Belgian workers typically enjoy generous annual leave entitlements. If you’re wondering how I travel so much 😉 it’s because the EU mandates that every employee is entitled to at least four weeks (i.e. 20 days on a full-time basis) of paid annual leave. Additionally, my organization offers 12 WTC days which are accrued throughout the year. Since I’ve entered my 5th year with Komatsu, I also received 1 extra seniority day. This doesn’t even include public holidays!!! Typically June/August is known as the holiday period, with people escaping to Italy for 2-3 weeks (or whatever country they prefer but I swear everyone’s always going to Italy!)
Additionally, many companies offer flexible working arrangements, such as telecommuting and part-time options, to accommodate employees’ personal needs and commitments. Belgians place a high value on spending quality time with family and friends, and there is a cultural expectation of maintaining a healthy balance between work and leisure activities. We have a huge coffee culture, with 10-15 minute coffee breaks to encourage collaboration and to get to know your colleagues. There’s also organized sports and activities after work. The working days are long though, many people often don’t leave the office until 6pm. Overall, the work-life balance in Belgium is characterized by a commitment to both professional success and personal well-being.
Safety
Safety is a topic close to my heart, and it’s one that’s been on my mind a lot since moving out of America. The sense of psychological safety I’ve experienced here in Belgium has been a stark contrast to what I grew accustomed to back home. One significant factor contributing to this sense of security is Belgium’s strict regulations regarding firearms. (Don’t get me wrong, I am not anti-gun…however I believe there should be regulations) Guns are generally not allowed for civilian possession. Pepper spray is even illegal (which I think is crazy). This means that incidents involving weapons are far less common, and there’s a tangible feeling of safety in everyday life. Most likely, the worst thing you will experience is getting a knife pulled on you.
The most important thing in my eyes is that parents can send their children to school safely without the fear of gun violence. We’re only in the 3rd month of 2024, and The US has already had 16 school shootings. Truthfully, what’s more important than our children? Not to mention, road rage incidents don’t escalate into fatal shootings (which everyone likes to mention when I tell them I’m from Chicago). I’m not fearful in crowds whereas I use to have extreme anxiety about mass shootings. And let’s not forget the prevalence of violence against women, which sadly remains a serious issue in many parts of the world. The fact that women can’t even feel safe running on trails in broad daylight on college campuses in America without the fear of being assaulted or worse is a stark reminder of the ongoing challenges we face in terms of safety and security. So, when I talk about feeling safer here in Belgium, it’s not just a matter of personal comfort—it’s a reflection of the tangible differences in safety measures and societal norms that contribute to a more secure environment for everyone.
Parenthood
Let me begin by stating that 186 countries in the world provide paid maternity leave and health benefits by law; the US is one of seven countries with no national paid leave. Make it make sense????
Source: The New York Times, 2023
On a global scale, the average paid maternity leave is 29 weeks; the average paid paternity leave is 16 weeks. Here in Belgium, working mothers are entitled to 15 weeks of paid maternity leave. This leave is paid by the government, so it also applies to self-employed mothers. Salaried and self-employed fathers and co-parents are currently entitled to 20 days of fully-paid paternity or birth leave. Another perk for working parents in Belgium is the option to adjust their work schedule to better accommodate family commitments. For instance, many parents can apply to work at a prorated level, adjusting their hours to fit their family’s needs.
Here’s a real-life example: Schools in Belgium have half days on Wednesdays. So, if a parent’s child has this midweek break, they might adjust their work schedule accordingly. My boss has a young daughter and values spending time with her, especially on Wednesdays. Her work contract was modified to 90%, meaning she works 90% of the standard hours and receives 90% of her paid days off. Despite this adjustment, she still holds a significant role within the company. This flexibility allows her to strike a balance between her career aspirations and her family commitments without having to sacrifice one for the other. This shift in mindset reflects a broader trend towards flexible work arrangements and a recognition of the value that individuals with diverse lifestyles and responsibilities bring to the workplace. Ultimately, it’s about redefining what success looks like and embracing a more inclusive approach to career advancement that accommodates the diverse needs of employees, including working parents.
My company in the US offers 6 weeks paid leave for natural births and 8 weeks paid leave for C-sections; in 2022, I helped implement a policy for 2 weeks paid for fathers. So you’re telling me that if I give birth naturally, I should leave my baby and return to work after 1.5 months? In no way is that natural…for the baby or the mother. Additionally, the standard for higher-level leadership positions typically mandates full-time employment. Part-time roles are typically capped at 50%, and individuals aspiring to top-tier leadership positions are generally expected to commit to full-time work. The option to work at 90% capacity (or 70%, 80%) isn’t even an option for these roles.
Reflection
Okay, so I might have come off a bit harsh on the US, but hear me out—it’s all part of this eye-opening experience of discovering how differently people live around the world compared to what I’ve known growing up. While Belgium is definitely smaller than the US, a lot of what I’ve observed here applies to the broader European Union, which comprises 27 diverse countries.
That’s not to say that there aren’t downsides….
First of all, the sun BARELY shines here and we get lots of rain
Salaries in Europe tend to be much lower, and tax rates are definitely higher. To put it in perspective, starting salaries for university graduates in Belgium average 2000 euros net per month (approximately $2,189). Plus, Belgium’s progressive tax system means the more you earn, the more you’re taxed, with rates ranging from about 25% to a hefty 50%. If you earn 46,440 euros annually (about $50,849), you are paying 50% in taxes. Keep in mind that those taxes do include healthcare and university education…but that is still super high
Restaurant substitutions and alterations don’t exist here and I miss that in American you can basically have anything your way
They don’t celebrate Thanksgiving (for obvious reasons) but they’re missing out because it is the best holiday!!!! Halloween is also not popular here
Air conditioning is rare which means the summers are HOT (& stinky)
You essentially have to have a university degree and speak at least 2 languages to get a white collar job whereas the US has a strong culture of fostering entrepreneurial spirit and encouraging innovation
I also recognize there are some adjustments I can make when returning home that are within my control, like cultivating a healthier lifestyle by growing more natural foods or shopping organically. But when it comes to bigger societal issues like shootings or the lack of paid maternity leave, it’s a different story. That feeling of helplessness can be overwhelming at times. I know it seems dramatic like “calm down Liv this was only for two years” but this is my LIFE I’m talking about.
Cue the deep sigh and maybe a few tears. I’m incredibly grateful for this experience, but the thought of moving back is bittersweet. I hope that you can understand that a little bit more after reading this & support me with the transition next year. But for now, I’ll try to push these thoughts off and enjoy every last second here!!!
Today marks ONE YEAR of living in Europe, 4,000+ miles away from home. Can you believe it?! It has been a whirlwind for Ben and I…with new jobs, global friendships, hosting 16 visitors, and exploring 12 countries (8 of them brand new!). This year brought personal growth, adventures, and challenges – and I wouldn’t change it for the world.
The Highlights
Obviously, the reason for this international move was for my job. I have had three roles with Komatsu so far, and this one is definitely my favorite! In my recent performance review, my manager mentioned that I have assimilated extremely well into the work culture and have formed relationships at all levels of the organization. She even said that I was exactly what the HR team here needed!
As the HR projects supervisor, I am the European liaison from headquarters to all European entities for HR related topics (Germany, Italy, Sweden, etc.) I have been able to work on some exciting initiatives…from creation to implementation to evaluation. Having a project-based role is right up my alley. In 2024, I will have business trips to our facilities in Sweden and Italy too!
We hosted a “Family Day” back in March on a Saturday. I normally dress more in business attire during the week
Another major highlight is that we have an established community of friends here. I knew that it was really important for Ben and I to find this because we are both super social people who love to host. Because Brussels is such an international city, we have made friends from all over the world, which has brought new insight and unique experiences. We have made friends through work, hockey, and expat groups on Facebook! I am so thankful for these people who we get to celebrate birthdays and holidays with, plan trips with, and have been such a support system during our time here.
Celebrating Thanksgiving together!
Vacation (referred to as holiday) time is extensive, and I am taking advantage of that! Not only that, but it is encouraged at work that you take your time off…even multiple weeks in a row. The famous question “Are you living to work or working to live?” really resonates here. In my experience, the American dream drives Americans to live to work, whereas Europeans are working to live.
And the best highlight…being able to travel at a level I have never before experienced (and will probably never experience again). In 2023, I flew 44,388 miles on 30 flights. That is 1.8x around the world! We spent our first wedding anniversary in Paris, saw the famous tulips at Keukenhof in The Netherlands with my sister, stayed in a villa in the French Riviera with my dad, visited Prague with my mom, went to a music festival in Budapest with a friend from college, went on the “World’s Best Hot Air Balloon Ride” in Turkey with Ben, stayed in a honeymoon suite in Santorini next door to our best friends on their honeymoon, went to Germany for famous Christmas markets with Ben’s family, and so much more!! It sounds like I am making all of this stuff up…I seriously think that when we tell our future children about this life that we lived, they won’t believe us!
The hardest parts
I have received SO much encouragement and excitement from family, friends, acquaintances…even people I haven’t talked to in years. I love getting to share this journey with everyone, but I don’t want it to seem through the lens of social media that everything is perfect. It is easy for everything to appear like sunshine and rainbows, but there are clouds and storms (literally because it rains 200 days per year here!!!).
The most difficult part of this entire experience was trying to focus on living my life here while being away from my life back home. For example, being away from our families during the holidays, missing my childhood best friend experience her first pregnancy, bridal showers, bachelorette parties, baby showers, birthdays, family dinners…people’s lives keep continuing and I’m watching them from a far. There are also so many events I will miss in 2024 and I know I will struggle with that. On the other hand, our family and friends have been SO intentional with planning to FaceTime, sending us letters in the mail, and encouraging us above and beyond. To my people, you know who you are, I love you!!! Thank you for your support.
The second most difficult thing was not having air conditioning. This is such an “American” comment but let me tell you…it SUCKED. There was a 10-day period in July/August where it was above 85 degrees Fahrenheit every day. Ben was back home in Chicago and Mallow and I were so overheated. It resulted in her not eating and me having an actual heat stroke. I finally decided to check us into a hotel for one night so just we could reset. She immediately ate 3 bowls of her food and I started to feel better. All my friends were teasing me for not being able to withstand the heat, but I had no shame! I needed to feel the A/C again LOL.
Mallow at the hotel…naturally she had to bring her frisbee
Another difficult adjustment was living in a country that is sooooo different from my own. Being around people that speak in foreign languages and navigating a completely different culture can be a challenge. For example, the workplace culture is completely different (& I experienced my first ever conflict in the workplace!), the currency is euros, we drive in kilometers, discuss the weather in Celsius, must use our translator app when shopping for groceries, etc. I even got a bridesmaid’s dress tailored by a woman who spoke only French! Every day I’m outside of my comfort zone. Most of the time I can handle it but sometimes things feel overwhelming.
Another battle was the neighborhood we lived in for the last 11 months. We thought we could handle the city center, but it turned out that after surviving an attempted mugging (thanks to Ben’s quick reflexes and my fight/flight response he didn’t get our jewelry), our building being broken into resulting in my favorite blue bike being stolen, and the constant crowds of people…that the city center was not for us. We have just moved (only 3 miles away) to a new neighborhood into the most beautiful apartment! We are so excited for this change and thankful to my company for being accommodating.
Some other funny “challenges” we’ve experienced…one of the hockey teams in the league Ben plays in filed a complaint against Ben. They were inquiring to see if we moved here for his hockey career LOL (because he is the #1-point scorer on his team, humble brag), so we had to provide our work contracts to prove hockey is just an extracurricular. North American hockey is at a completely different level than European hockey, so Ben has been targeted during games. It isn’t fun to watch your husband get slammed up against the boards, and I am now making him wear a cage to protect his face. I just think this is so funny because if we were to move for his hockey career, why do they think we would choose Belgium???
Go #16!!!
Lastly, our challenges in America (political, social, and economic) have undoubtedly tainted the reputation of the United States. For many, they view the US as somewhere they still want to visit but not necessarily live. I take a lot of heat about America…people are always making comments about how I should be use to mass shootings, how the food is so unhealthy there, or how our Presidents are a joke (they’re not wrong). I can handle it for the most part, but sometimes it gets to me. I have to realize that I can’t defend an entire country.
What I’ve learned
I’ve learned that I am adaptable and can handle change. As someone who typically fears changes and struggles with anxiety, this is exciting progress!
My perspective has changed about sooo many things and I’ve learned more about the world and myself more than ever before. I am changing and growing and figuring out who I am and what I like. Part of that is what your 20s are for, but it is definitely intensified in my current situation.
For example, I definitely don’t want to live in the middle of a city. But I don’t think living in the suburbs is for me either. I think I’d like a balance where we could drive/park and have a backyard but also be able to walk to dinner or some grocery stores/markets. Anyone have any recommendations?
I’ve learned more about sustainability, extreme consumerism in America, what’s in our food and how we should treat our bodies, etc. For example, this past year I have shopped less than I ever have. I now only buy things that “speak to me”, whereas back home I would have an Amazon package showing up on my porch every other day…yikes.
Conclusion
I am the first, youngest, and female expat in a male-dominated organization to have an international assignment in Europe. There are not enough words that could ever express this experience. I’ve felt every emotion this year. Happiness, sadness, excitement, frustration, overwhelmed, pure joy…you name it, I’ve felt it. But the thought of leaving here makes me so sad…so I’m going to make this last year count!!!
Living in a new country often brings about unique experiences and challenges. There are so many things I find myself doing now that I never thought I would. It’s a journey filled with moments that make me pause and wonder, “What in the world am I doing?” I thought it would be fun to share some!
Trusting strangers with my dog in Belgium every time I travel.
Back in the US, we had friends and family to watch Mallow. There were also options like doggy daycares and apps like “Rover” for finding someone to watch her. However, with trusted friends/family conveniently located in the area, emergencies were never a concern. Moving to Belgium changed that. This year, we actively sought out strangers on Facebook to care for Mallow during our travels. Meeting them beforehand has become a pre-flight ritual, and we’re grateful to have found three trusted sitters who provide regular updates and pictures during our travels!
A picture of Mallow from one of our dog-sitters. They took her to a town called “Ghent” to an outdoor concert. We haven’t even visited Ghent yet!
Adopting a “Whatever comes on the meal” mentality
I’ve never considered myself a picky eater, but I used to be the girl always requesting substitutions or alterations to my meals. Whether due to a language barrier or a cultural norm, I’ve embraced the European approach of eating whatever is served. This is a stark contrast to the American dining scene, where customization is the norm. Of course allergies are the exception (I am allergic to almonds so I have to be super careful).
Walking everywhere.
A 35-minute walk to the restaurant for dinner, regardless of the weather or distance? Absolutely. Rain or shine, hot or cold, walking has become my preferred mode of transportation. From grocery shopping and dining out to visiting bars, getting coffee, or heading to the local hardware store – I walk everywhere. The only time I opt for driving is to and from work, and if the distance is too great, I take public transit. Traffic here is also awful. In fact, last year Brussels was named the city with the 14th worst traffic in the world and the 7th worst in Europe.
Using simple words and phrases in English.
Since most people living in Brussels are from all over the world (my friend group alone consists of people from Belgium, Turkey, Kenya, Italy, Albania, Brazil, Finland, Canada) English is our common language. However, with English not being the first language for many, I’ve adapted by using simpler words and phrases. Expressions like “piece of cake” or “cold turkey” often end up with people looking confused. Most people here actually speak at least 2 languages fluently, and it is not uncommon for people to speak 3, 4, 5, or more languages. I’ve also adjusted my vocabulary by opting for simpler words like “strange” instead of “peculiar”. Interestingly, this adjustment sometimes leads to momentary lapses in memory when I’m back in The States or speaking with native English speakers.
Paying for water AND to use the bathroom.
Yes, it’s true. In most European countries you have to pay for your water. When you request water at a restaurant, you’re usually presented with the choice between still or sparkling (I always opt for still). At restaurants, access to the bathrooms (often referred to as water closets or toilets) is usually complimentary. However, the scenario shifts when you find yourself at a bar during the late evening, enjoying drinks. Even in this social setting where you’re a customer, there’s a restroom fee. It’s one of those nuances of daily life here that takes some getting used to.
Living in Europe has totally changed up my lifestyle, making me way more open to different ways of living. I’ve come to appreciate that the way I grew up and what feels normal to me is just one of many ways to live. It’s been quite the eye-opener!
The number one thing on my travel bucket list that I wanted to tackle while living abroad was going to Cappadocia, Turkey for the “World’s Best Hot Air Balloon Ride”. So in the beginning of this year, I went onto Google Flights and searched the cheapest weekend to fly from Brussels to Turkey…and September it was!
To be honest, Turkey had never really be on my radar. I have a whole list of places that I want to go, but it wasn’t until a couple of years ago that the hot air balloon ride caught my attention. The truth is that Americans tend to have a negative perception of Turkey and it can get tied in with the Middle East, being perceived as dangerous. Also, it is quite a far journey from America. I can honestly say that there was not one moment during our 5 day trip to Turkey where I felt unsafe. Of course, there are extremists in every country (we’ve certainly seen that in the US), but we talked with each of our tour guides and they said that you are free to choose your religion in Turkey. I feel like I learned a lot about the culture and the people, and really believe that everyone should go to Turkey once in their lifetime.
I have two Turkish colleagues that I regularly hangout with, not to mention there is a large Turkish community in Brussels. I have been around many Turkish people and tried many traditional Turkish dishes. Plus, my friends sent me with some great recommendations for our trip of things to try and places to see. I will be honest and say that I did not do enough of my own research before this trip because I a) did not know we needed a visa to enter Turkey and b) did not know about the dress code when entering mosques. Luckily we were able to get our visas upon arrival and I bought a scarf to cover my head and shoulders and Ben changed into pants for most of our touring.
Blue Mosque right near our hotel
We flew into Istanbul first (rated the 2022 best international airport…I seriously could live in the airport lounge there) and spent 1.5 days there. Honestly, you need much more time than this, however the main purpose of this trip was to get to Cappadocia, which you have to fly to Istanbul first anyways. The sun was shining and it was HOT. We went from chilly Brussels to weather back to summer it felt like! We walked that city up and down, exploring the Blue Mosque, Basilica Cistern, Gulhane Park, Grand Bazaar, and stopped at Sehzade Cag Kebap which was rated #9 on the Best Dishes of the World in 2022 & featured in The New York Times.
kebap for dayssss
Then we spent the evening on the Bosphorus Strait, an internationally significant waterway that connects the Black Sea to the Sea of Marmara (the divide between Asia and Europe). For only $44 each, we spent the evening on a yacht watching sunset with snacks and non-alcoholic drinks included. I’m linking this here because it’s something you have to do if you ever visit Istanbul. Overall, Turkey was extremely affordable.
sunset yacht cruise on the Bosphorus! to our left was Asia, to the right was Europe
Another thing I wanted to mention is that during this entire 5 day trip, we each had 1 beer (2 if you count the airport beers). Most of the places we went for meals didn’t offer alcohol on their menu, but we weren’t necessarily seeking it out either. I believe this is partly due to the high taxation on alcohol and also the conservative culture here. Regardless, this trip was proof that you can have an amazing time without it. Don’t worry though…we used all our calories on the food there anyways.
The next morning at 3:45am we got picked up for our flight to Cappadocia! I wouldn’t even say we slept…it was more of a nap. The flight was only an hour long, but it was quite the journey to get there. Upon landing, we technically left Europe and ended up in Asia. The airport shuttle took us to our hotel where we dropped off our bags with the front desk. The hotel was essentially in a cave and only had 6 rooms. The front desk kept our belongings outside in their corridor, so I just prayed that they would still be there when we came back. We began our North Cappadocia Tour where we toured the Open Air Museum, Uchisar Historic Castle, Pasabag Monks Valley, Deviant Valley, Avanos Pottery, and Love Valley. The land formations we saw were formed approximately 3-9 million years ago.
After a full day tour, we were taken straight to the quad bike tour for sunset (we went through a company who booked everything for us and put together a full itinerary, they didn’t miss a beat!) We went through various parts of the desert and went to a high view point to watch the sunset. Common theme here- I always need to end up on a boat and watch the sunset as many times as I can on each trip.
At one of the stops Ben and I stopped to just to take it all in. I looked at him and said “Can you believe we are ATVing through the Turkish desert?!?!?!?” I swear this life we are living feels like a dream. There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t recognize how amazing this opportunity is and how grateful I am that we get to experience this together.
just a little bit dusty
After the ATV tour ended, we had dust in about every crevice so we took a quick shower then walked into town for dinner. We absolutely love Turkish food, and had another great meal. We headed to bed early because we had another 3:45am wakeup call LOL (I think we slept an average of 4 hours per night so ya girl definitely got cranky towards the end of the trip…Ben can confirm 😉 ).
I could barely sleep anyways because I knew that the hot air balloon ride was just hours away!!!!!! We got picked up outside of our hotel at 4:30 (yes I did fully do my hair and makeup before this) and were on our way. We picked up a few others and were dropped off in a field while it was pitch black out LOL. The hot air balloon companies began their set up, and before we knew it, the sky was illuminated. We climbed into what seemed like a basket made of wood with 18 other passengers and 2 pilots.
look at this basket…how is this sturdy?!?!?
It was in this moment I started to think about what it would actually be like to take flight in this contraption. The balloons fly from ground level to 3,000 feet above ground level, depending on wind direction and speed. The max. altitude is 6000 feet, which the pilot said we reached. He also mentioned that he cannot control if we go left or right, only up or down depending on the wind. Each flight they take ends up landing in a different area, where the crew meets us for landing. Ben was silent in fear and I was trying not to giggle. Once we got in the air, I was overtaken with immense happiness as I looked out and saw the 150 balloons flying simultaneously. No pictures could ever do this justice!
After a safe landing, we got dropped back off at our hotel where we used the 2 hour buffer to take a quick nap and get some breakfast. We spent the rest of the day on the South Cappadocia Tour where we explored the Red & Rose Valley, Cavusin Village, Underground city, Pigeon Valley, Goreme Town, and Ortahisa Panorama. The bus driver on this tour never spoke one word until the last stop. He then shared with us that he is a photographer in his free time and then proceeded to put Ben and I in ridiculous poses which I will share below. It was soooo funny.
like WHAT was happening here
Then we headed back to the airport in Cappadocia to fly to Istanbul for one more night before going back to Brussels. It was safe to say that we had seen Cappadocia from North to South and most importantly survived our hot air balloon ride! We left Turkey with full hearts, full stomachs, and absolutely exhausted. Ben & I agreed it was our best trip yet this year, and I would recommend going to Turkey to anyone.
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