- Last Adventure in Europe: A Mediterranean Cruise
- Anniversary Trips to Paris
- Scotland Blog: Hannah, Highlands, and High Tea
- Winter Adventures in Lapland
- 2024 Highlights: Travel, Friends, and Milestones
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Anniversary Trips to Paris



For three anniversaries in a row, we’ve somehow found ourselves on our way to Paris. It doesn’t even feel real typing that—lol!
(Technically, we’d been to Paris once before… but we never even saw the Eiffel Tower. In March 2020, we were on our first European trip together when COVID broke out. We had to buy an emergency flight home, which left from Paris. Paris had originally been on our itinerary, but we were visiting Carly in Germany when everything escalated. We quickly took a train to Paris, checked into a hotel just long enough to shower and take a quick nap, then headed straight to the airport, hoping to make it out before the quarantine guidelines were enacted. As you can probably guess, this trip doesn’t really count.)
In March 2023, we had only been living in Brussels for about six weeks, but we knew we wanted to celebrate our first year of marriage in the city of love. And we went all out. A fancy hotel with a balcony facing the Eiffel Tower, exquisite dinner reservations, a photo shoot with a photographer I had been following for years, a boat ride down the Seine, a half-day in the Louvre, put a lock on the lock bridge, see Moulin Rouge, and more. It was a full-fledged, very touristy, three-day/two-night itinerary. We experienced Paris in quite a unique way………right in the middle of one of their largest strikes. Trash was piling up, rats were running through the streets, fires were burning, and protesters were marching. We originally booked train tickets but had to drive last-minute due to the transit strike. Despite the chaos, we had a great time and made some unforgettable memories.




In March 2024, we decided to return for just one night. This time we drove up on Saturday morning, no set agenda, and wandered the city from east to west and north to south, hitting all the major attractions along the way. Because of the upcoming Summer Olympics, many statues were covered for cleaning and several areas were blocked off, but we still managed to have a lovely meal and even reenacted a photo from our first anniversary trip.


On Sunday, we visited the Palace of Versailles—something we didn’t have time for the first time around. I’m so glad we made it happen. Walking through a former royal residence commissioned by King Louis XIV and exploring the ornate royal gardens was such a breathtaking experience. The Palace and Park of Versailles have been a UNESCO World Heritage Site since 1979, and now I understand why.

My favorite room was the Hall of Mirrors, pictured below.

When we found out my expat assignment was being extended and realized we’d still be living nearby during our third anniversary, Paris felt… inevitable.
So, in March 2025, we decided to do it the European way: by taking the train there for just the day! The ride from Brussels-Midi to Paris Gare du Nord is only 1 hour and 22 minutes on the Eurostar—crazy, right?!

From the moment we left our house to when we arrived at the Eiffel Tower, only three hours had passed. We picked up pastries and sandwiches from a bakery and sat in the sunshine at Place du Trocadéro with the Eiffel Tower in sight.

We spent the day lollygagging around, with no reservations or plans! The weather was absolutely amazing – sunny all day long.
We also got the chance to snap a photo in front of the iconic Olympic rings—so cool! Fun fact: the five ring colors were chosen because at least one of them appears on every national flag in the world.

Our wedding day truly was the best day of our lives—a total cliché, I know, but one you don’t fully understand until you live it. This tradition of ours has been such a meaningful part of our marriage. Every year on March 19, we take the time to reflect on where we’ve been and where we’re going—as individuals and as a couple.
Disclaimer: I’ve already been told that Paris may not be on the table for our fourth anniversary…but hey, a girl can dream 😉
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Scotland Blog: Hannah, Highlands, and High Tea

Before moving to Belgium, I jokingly told all my best friends that visiting me was a requirement—unless they got engaged, married, or had a baby then they had a viable excuse. Well, Hannah had a baby while I’ve been here… and she still came to visit, which meant the world to me. I was also incredibly proud of her because I think I’ve always felt like it was important for moms to maintain their independence. That’s not to say it’s easy though, and I’m grateful for her husband, family, and in-laws, who all tag-teamed taking care of Gwen for the week so I could have uninterrupted time with my best friend.
The first two days we spent in Brussels, and I think Hannah left convinced that it’s a sunny city! The weather was absolutely amazing—60s and sunny—and we spent time walking through neighborhoods, thrifting, going to brunch, reading in the park, and talking over each other because we had so many stories and updates to share (even though we text every single day, lol)

Parc du Cinquantenaire, my favorite place in Brussels just steps away from my apartment 
St. Michael & St. Gudula Cathedral in Brussels 
Yes, we have the same water bottles Off to Scotland!
On Monday morning at the crack of dawn, we headed to Scotland! We flew into Edinburgh (pronounced Ed-en-burr-oh) and arrived around breakfast time. The airport was super convenient, with both bus and tram options directly to the city center—definitely not always the case when traveling!
We stayed at Wilde Aparthotels Grassmarket, a perfect location tucked just under Edinburgh Castle, on a quiet street only 10–15 minutes from everything the city has to offer. Naturally, our first stop was coffee, so we walked about five minutes to the famous Victoria Street in Old Town, which is actually a UNESCO World Heritage Site. Although I’ve never seen Harry Potter, this is where J.K. Rowling said she got her inspiration for Diagon Alley. It’s a beautiful, colorful street where we grabbed coffee, later ate a traditional Scottish meal, and did our souvenir shopping.

Continuing through Old Town, we walked the Royal Mile, which connects Edinburgh Castle (to the west) with the Palace of Holyroodhouse (to the east). At one point, my favorite pair of boots broke, and since we wouldn’t be back at the hotel until evening, I had no choice but to buy a new pair. I left my broken ones at a bus stop, hoping they’d find a new home or someone to repair them—hahah.

Exploring the Highlands: Loch Ness, Glencoe & More
You can’t visit Scotland without seeing its stunning landscapes, so the next day we took a day trip to Loch Ness, Glencoe, & the Scottish Highlands. This was a 12.5-hour bus tour (apparently the longest single-day bus trip in Europe!), leaving from the city center early in the morning.
As we drove north through the breathtaking Highlands, we stopped periodically to see Highland cows, sheep, and several famous filming locations (Harry Potter, James Bond, and Outlander were all filmed in Scotland!).

One of the most beautiful stops was at the Three Sisters of Glencoe, a breathtaking mountain ridge shaped over 400 million years ago and further sculpted by glaciers.

Our tour guide shared an interesting fact: Scotland has a population of around 5.5 million, but the sheep population is estimated to be around 7 million this time of year. That means there are more sheep than people in Scotland! We also learned that Scotland’s national animal is the unicorn. It has been a symbol of Scotland for centuries, representing purity, strength, and independence. It even appears on their royal coat of arms. I didn’t realize you could have a fictional animal as a national animal!
We passed by Ben Nevis, the highest mountain in the UK. Its name means “mountain in the clouds” which is fitting, since the summit is only visible about 20% of the time. While less famous than Everest, Ben Nevis is one of the UK’s most dangerous mountains, with a growing number of fatalities largely due to unpredictable weather and difficult terrain.
We then made our way to Urquhart Castle in Inverness, a historic medieval fortress on the shores of Loch Ness. This castle saw great conflict during its 500 years as a stronghold, changing hands many times during the Wars of Scottish Independence.


We then took a boat cruise across Loch Ness, enjoying stunning views of the castle and—of course—keeping an eye out for Nessie, the Loch Ness Monster. “Loch” is the Gaelic word for lake, which is why bodies of water are called lochs rather than lakes in Scotland (and Ireland). Scotland has over 30,000 freshwater lochs!

While no monster sightings were confirmed, we learned that Loch Ness is Scotland’s most famous loch, largely due to the legend of Nessie. It stretches 22.5 miles and reaches a depth of 745 feet, making it one of the deepest lakes in the UK.
A Perfect Last Day in Scotland
Our last day in Scotland was probably my favorite (even though the entire trip was amazing). We finally had a morning to sleep in, then grabbed coffee and a pastry before heading up Castlehill to Edinburgh Castle.

grabbed our morning coffee on Victoria Street One of the oldest fortified places in Europe, the castle has served as a royal residence, military garrison, and even a prison of war.

The oldest part, St. Margaret’s Chapel, dates back to the 12th century. We also saw Scotland’s Crown Jewels, which are the oldest Crown Jewels in Britain, made of gold, silver, and precious gems (you can’t take pictures in this portion of the castle).

After exploring the castle, we had a purse-making experience at Islander UK, where we created our own Harris Tweed handbags. Picking out the colors, patterns, and straps was the hardest part! Harris Tweed is unique because it’s the only fabric in the world protected by its own Act of Parliament. By law, it must be handwoven in the Western Isles, using pure virgin wool. I liked hearing about the history and being able to create something with it.


Obviously, we had to have snap some photos outside after the workshop with our new bags!



To end our trip, we had afternoon tea at The Dome in the Georgian Tea Room which is open from 12pm – 5pm daily. Tea has been popular in Scotland since the 18th century. Initially, it was a luxury only for the wealthy, but by the late 19th century, it became a staple of Scottish life. Afternoon tea is generally taken as a late lunch or to bridge the gap between lunch and a late dinner, which is exactly what we did! There are sooo many options, but we felt like The Dome provided a classic afternoon tea experience in a grand setting for a reasonable price.


We would drink coffee, then more coffee, then tea, then more tea—only to look at each other at night and say, “Why can’t we sleep?!” 😂
Final Thoughts
To be honest, I didn’t know what to expect from Scotland. We booked this trip purely because of an Instagram reel Hannah sent me last April, lol. Hannah and I kept joking that we were going on a blind date with a country. When I told friends/coworkers in Belgium where we were going, most were surprised—it’s not a common holiday destination for them. Since Belgium is always rainy, most people prefer sunny destinations. But we were lucky—Hannah’s entire trip had great weather, and it only rained once in Edinburgh (and briefly!).
The people were very friendly and quirky there, it felt easy and comfortable to get around because everything was in English, and nearly everything was in walking distance.
Regardless of where we spent our time, I knew it would be something to remember. You know when you’ve known someone so long that you can be the truest version of yourself around them?
I’m so thankful for this time together—the fun activities, exploring a new country, and the quiet moments of simply reading and reminiscing on 24 years of friendship. 💛

Imagine telling these two little girls they’d be best friends forever! -
Winter Adventures in Lapland
Now that our time on this side of the world is winding down, I knew I had to be strategic with the last few trips we could squeeze in. My dad also wanted to visit one more time, so I turned to my bucket list to see what he would enjoy. One word immediately jumped out as the perfect destination for his January visit: Lapland.
Lapland is a region that spans across Finland, Sweden, Norway and Russia and is famous for chasing the Northern Lights (Aurora) and all things winter. There are many areas to explore, but Brussels’ south airport conveniently adds a seasonal flight to Rovaniemi (Finland) from December through February. Rovaniemi is the capital of Lapland, home to the official Santa Claus Village, and lies at 66 degrees north latitude.

Once the flights were booked, the first order of business was figuring out how to properly handle the cold. Every time I mentioned to European friends or colleagues that we were heading to Lapland, they strongly advised dressing as warmly as possible, warning that it would be the coldest place I’d ever been. What’s funny is that they seemed to forget I’m from Chicago—I grew up in freezing winter climates!
Nonetheless, packing for this trip was a full operation. Thankfully, I have a Finnish friend in Brussels who lent me proper boots, wool socks, gloves, and other essentials. We also bought two sets of thermal undergarments with heating technology. While plenty of people looked effortlessly stylish, I prioritized warmth. Each day, I bundled up in snow pants and three layers of clothes. Still, I had to add a little flair—so I found some fun hats and oversized earmuffs to keep a touch of winter fashion.


Our adventure began with a frigid -22°C (-7.6°F) welcome. First stop: Santa Claus Village. Naturally, we gave in to the classic tourist trap of taking a photo with Santa – we decided that we will tell our future children that we were invited by Santa himself because of our good behavior.

Here we also visited the official Santa Claus Post Office. After every trip, we send postcards to our parents (and sometimes friends and other family), so it was a special experience to write them from this festive setting. You can choose to have your postcard mailed the next day or held until just before Christmas! (Though with European post, those two options might as well be the same.)


Then we crossed the official Arctic Circle, got to feed and pet reindeer, and stumbled upon a cozy teepee with a crackling fire, so we sat inside to warm up. Ben ran to buy some hot dogs, and we roasted them over the fire—a simple but perfect moment in such a remote corner of the world with two of my favorite people.

Later that evening, I unintentionally doubled down on my reindeer experience—this time on my plate (sorry, Rudolph).

I always make it a point to try a traditional meal on my first night in a new country, and Arctic Restaurant did not disappoint. The town we stayed in was tiny, almost more of a village, but our Airbnb was perfectly located just minutes from the center.
Over six days, we successfully visited every coffee shop, souvenir store, and restaurant in town. One of my biggest shocks was the high prices—at one café, two cappuccinos and two muffins cost 24.50 euros, while in Brussels, the same would cost maybe 14 euros. Luckily, we found a more reasonably priced café that became our go-to, its warm cinnamon twists smell drawing us in every time.

Last minute, we decided to rent a car so we could chase the Northern Lights on our own each night. Having a car also gave us the flexibility to explore further. While my dad took a day to rest and recover from jet lag, Ben and I drove through snowy roads to hike at Korouoma Canyon.

As we neared our destination, I started researching the trail and learned that encounters with bears, wolves, and lynxes weren’t uncommon. Fantastic!!! We quickly decided to leave all food in the car—just in case. Upon arrival, we rented ice spikes (a necessity for the slippery terrain and elevation changes). The hike was alongside stunning—frozen waterfalls and pure, untouched snow.


We barely saw another soul in the three hours we were out there, and the remoteness was breathtaking.

We ended our hike at a small cabin, where a sweet elderly Finnish man served us tea and cake. He told us that although he had never left Finland, he had met people from all over the world. We signed the guest book and pinned Chicago on the world map. Finnish people aren’t big on small talk or smiling at strangers, but I managed to get him to give me a smile before we left. I felt like I was in some sort of Hallmark movie!

Other classic winter activities we participated in were snowmobiling and husky sledding—both of which ended up being trip highlights. We were given proper gear and got all bundled up!


Fresh snow had fallen for nearly 12 hours, making the conditions perfect.

The ride started through sparse, lightly snow-dusted trees, but soon we entered a dense forest where even the tallest of trees were completely covered in thick white snow. It was like stepping into a winter wonderland. I took a few pictures and videos, but then put my phone away to soak it all in.

The next day was the moment we had been waiting for—husky sledding!!! I had visited a husky training center in Northern Sweden during the previous summer, so I had learned about their diets, care, and boundless energy. At Apukka Husky Adventure in Rovaniemi, we got to be our own mushers—no guide on our sled!

I took the reins first, and as soon as our five huskies were harnessed, they went wild, barking and lunging forward as if yelling, “Let’s go already!” Our lead dogs were sisters, an alpha male held the middle, and the two back runners were also sisters. Before it was confirmed, Ben and I joked that the back-right husky was definitely female—every time we had to brake for spacing, she threw us the sassiest side-eye.

When it was my turn to be the passenger, I sat on the sled guided by my husband and pulled by these 5 amazing dogs and it was just so surreal.

After years of running around European cities, arriving and leaving exhausted, this trip felt different. Not to sound too “Nature is healing,” but… nature is healing. I was fully present—grateful for this adventure and the company of Ben and my dad.
After the ride, we were able to play and hold the baby huskies! They were 7 months old, and are set to begin the multi-year training process soon!

Aside from excursions, I also cherished our downtime. We played games, read books, and hopped in the car nightly, loaded with snacks and Northern Lights trackers.

We stood by lakes and along deserted roads, surrounded by pitch-black wilderness, the constellations illuminating the sky above us. Though clouds blocked the typical swirling green ribbons of the aurora, we did see faint green lights one night—enough to cross it off the bucket list. (Still, I guess I’ll just have to go to Iceland or something one day to see them properly!)

I am incredibly grateful for my dad’s two week visit. My heart is full after this trip and the time together. I would definitely recommend Lapland to anyone looking for an adventure – but be sure to book far in advance and make reservations for everything!

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2024 Highlights: Travel, Friends, and Milestones
Where do I even begin?!
2024 was a whirlwind, to say the least—a year absolutely packed with magical moments, personal growth, and unforgettable experiences. As we step into 2025, I know it will bring yet another year of change. My expat assignment ends at the end of May, and with it, so does this unique chapter of life abroad. Everyone warned me about how quickly this time would fly by, and wow, they weren’t kidding!
Before I dive headfirst into 2025 and all its uncertainties, I wanted to pause and reflect on the year that was. That’s one reason I love having this blog—it forces me to slow down and thoughtfully document my experiences to share with my friends and family. So, let’s take a look back at 2024, by the numbers:
✈️ 22 flights: Over the course of the year, I spent 3 days and 4 hours in the air, traveling a total of 32,181 miles—that’s 1.3x around the world! These adventures took me through 8 incredible countries: Denmark, Italy (twice), the U.S., Sweden, Austria, Netherlands, France, Luxembourg, and Tanzania. Out of those, 5 were new countries for me (Denmark, Sweden, Austria, Luxembourg, and Tanzania). Austria marked my 30th country, allowing me to complete my goal of reaching 30 countries before turning 30.🏡 13 Visitors: We hosted so many loved ones this year! Elia kicked off the visits in March, followed by Savannah and Ian in Copenhagen in April. Jossue and his brother swung by in May, and then Alex and Sam stopped in Brussels before we headed on our girls’ trip to Austria. Marisa joined me in Milan, Sarah and Zach explored Belgium for a week, our moms visited at separate times, and Ben’s friends filled in the gaps. I love how much joy these visits brought to our year!
💍 3 Weddings: May was filled with love and family time as we flew to NYC for my cousin Abbey’s wedding, then drove to Virginia to see my mom/grandma, then flew to Chicago for Ariana’s wedding where I was a bridesmaid. Then I flew back to Chicago for just a few days in October to be a bridesmaid in Rachel’s wedding. While we couldn’t attend every wedding we were invited to, we’re so happy for all our friends and family who tied the knot this year!
🎶 3 Concerts – In February, we saw Noah Kahan at a small venue in Belgium. He is absolutely my favorite artist right now – I just love his vibe (he was also my number one most listed to artist for 2024). I also went to Taylor Swift’s Eras tour which was so incredible! I wouldn’t consider myself a “Swiftie” by any means, but anyone who can perform for 3.5 hours in a row every night deserves some credit. Another reason I love her is because I felt like I’ve grown up listening to her music – her surprise song was a song I listened to when I had my first heartbreak and it brought me right back to those feelings. I also went 1 day to Tommorowland which is one of the most famous music festivals in the world, and one of the hardest to get tickets to. This experience was unlike anything else, and we walked over 34,000 steps that day!
🤕 1 Concussion: Not all adventures are successful ones. In 2024, I learned the hard way that some risks just aren’t worth it. During a work event that I planned at an adventure park, I attempted a free fall jump, landed incorrectly, and spent days in the dark nursing a concussion. Lesson learned—2025 will include fewer high-risk “fun” ideas!📸 48 Favorite Photos: Choosing my top four photos from each month was a challenge, given the 17,000 photos currently living on my camera roll! But this exercise reminded me just how amazing this year was:

We threw a farewell party for our friend Burcu, moved into our new apartment, enjoyed a rare snowy day with Mallow, and cheered on Ben in his hockey semi-finals. 
We hosted a combined housewarming and birthday party for Ben’s 27th, saw Noah Kahan live, and soaked up cozy evenings at home with Mallow. 
We visited Versailles and Paris, showed Elia around Bruges (my favorite town in Belgium), and celebrated more hockey wins. 
I spent quality time with my girls in Brussels, explored Copenhagen with Savannah and Ian, and celebrated Finnish Independence Day. 
A work trip to Venice turned into a mini-vacation when Ben joined me at the end. Later, we took a U.S. road trip for two weddings, saw family, and I finally got to meet my best friend’s daughter, Gwen! 
We celebrated Ariana and Jerry’s wedding, I went on a work trip to Northern Sweden then met Ben in Stockholm for the weekend, and Andrew/Ben surprised Silvia/I with a salsa dancing double date. 
Visitors, concerts, and new experiences filled this hectic yet incredible month. It was hard on the bank account but so worth it! 
A life-changing trip to Tanzania included a safari and an island escape to Zanzibar. Ben’s mom also visited for the third time—our most frequent guest! 
We hiked with Mallow, cheered on the Bears (who lost, as usual), and then I headed to Chicago at the tailend of the month where I had a quick coffee with Hannah and Gwen + FINALLY got to meet Carly’s baby, Karson. 
Rachel’s wedding day was incredible and we felt like celebrities walking through downtown Chicago all dressed up. I saw Ariana for a few hours and popped by Gwen’s 1st birthday before heading to the airport. Back in Brussels, we celebrated my friend Laura who turned 30! 
This was the first month of no travel in awhile. Ben actually planned a surprise trip to Sicily, but we decided to cancel and stay at home because I was so exhausted. We spent our weekends with friends and hosted 14 people for Thanksgiving! 
My mom joined us for a magical Christmas market road trip through Belgium, Luxembourg, and France. We ended the year with a quiet Christmas at home with just Ben, Mallow, and me. Reflections on 2024
Of course, not every moment was easy. Spending Christmas just the two of us, while peaceful, felt a little lonely. I also pushed myself too hard balancing work, travel, and hosting, which caught up with me by the fall. And as we look to 2025, there are so many uncertainties—where we’ll live, what our careers will look like, and how we’ll navigate the challenges of returning to the U.S.
But through it all, I’ve learned so much about myself, Ben, and what we want out of life. These “Brussels Bubble” years have been transformative. Our relationship has deepened as we’ve leaned on each other in ways we never had before. I can’t believe we’ve been together for 8 years (as of 1/1/25) — I can’t imagine this life without him.
The 20s are a wild ride full of growth, love, and chaos. One of my goals for this upcoming year is to embrace the twists and turns that 2025 has in store.
If you made it this far, thanks for reading! Love and best wishes to all my friends and family for 2025.
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Christmas Market Road Trip in Europe: A Memorable Journey

I cannot believe we have already reached the end of the year! I already feel like I have celebrated Christmas, because earlier this month my mom visited for 10 days and we spent most nights exploring different Christmas markets! This was her second time visiting me in Belgium – she came last April and we had an amazing trip to Prague.

Us in Prague – April 2023 I was so happy for her second visit, especially to show her our new apartment— new is a bit of a stretch considering it was built in the 1800s. Nonetheless, her last visit was when we lived in the city center…and now we live in a much calmer, more pleasant neighborhood. Mallow also thoroughly enjoyed her visit, showing her our favorite local places and how she gets to play off leash in the park. I’m pretty sure Mallow thought that my mom traveled all the way from Virginia just for her!
My mom and I had a bunch of ideas for when she should come and where we would visit together. There are endless places to travel, with so many direct flights leaving from Brussels each day. But when it came down to deciding on when and where to go, the idea of a road trip in December excited us both. If you’re planning a trip to Europe, the absolute best times to visit are (1) summer, of course, and (2) Christmastime. The holiday season here feels like stepping into a real-life snow globe, and it’s magical in a way that’s hard to describe until you experience.
Last December, Ben’s family visited, and we had an adventure through Germany’s iconic Christmas markets. This year with my mom, we decided to change it up and plan a Christmas market road trip that explored some new destinations.

Berlin Christmas markets – December 2023 What I love about European Christmas markets is how each one has its own unique vibe. Some are known for their incredible shopping, others for the festive food, and some are simply all about the atmosphere. Whether you’re there to sip mulled wine with friends or tackle your holiday shopping list, there’s truly something for everyone. Naturally, we were on a mission to experience it all—and rank the markets, of course!
Stop 1: Brussels Christmas Market
We started with our very own Brussels Christmas markets. I’ll admit that Brussels isn’t usually at the top of most people’s travel lists, but during the holidays, it really shines 😉 In fact, the Brussels Christmas markets attract around 2.5 million visitors annually, which is pretty impressive. There are 240 chalets to explore, a Ferris wheel, merry-go-rounds, curling, an ice rink, and my personal favorite—a sound and light show at the Grand Place.

The Grand Place is one of my two favorite spots in Brussels (the other being Parc du Cinquantenaire).

It’s not only stunning but also a UNESCO World Heritage Site since 1998. My mom and I combed through every single booth while Ben patiently followed with a backpack for our purchases (he’s a saint.)

I will say, however, that I was disappointed they didn’t have the potato pancakes this year—a situation I believe warrants serious attention for 2025!

Stop 2: Luxembourg City Christmas Market
The next day, we drove 2.5 hours to Luxembourg City, marking my 32nd country visited! I didn’t have many expectations going in, but sometimes that’s the best way to travel. Luxembourg is a tiny European country bordered by Belgium, France, and Germany. I knew it’s one of the richest countries in the world (thanks to its high GDP per capita), offers free public transportation, and is a popular spot for Belgians to stock up on tax-free alcohol. Beyond that, I had no idea what to expect, but I was pleasantly surprised!

The city had five Christmas markets, all within walking distance. With around 100 chalets, the atmosphere was cozy and festive, with plenty of spots to warm up by a fire, grab a drink, or enjoy live music.

These markets attract around 1.2 million visitors annually, and we loved how manageable and charming they were. Luxembourg was initially just a stop to break up the drive, but we ended up really enjoying our time there!

Stop 3: Strasbourg Christmas Market
The next day, we hit the road for another 2.5 hours to Strasbourg, France, the self-proclaimed “Capital of Christmas.” Almost every “Top 10 Christmas Markets in Europe” list puts Strasbourg in the top three, so our expectations were high. It didn’t disappoint!

Main markets are right in front of the famous cathedral! Dating back to 1570, Strasbourg’s market is the oldest in France and one of the oldest in all of Europe. With over 300 chalets spread across the city, Strasbourg Christmas markets attract more than 2 million visitors each year. We spent two full days here, shopping until we dropped (again- shoutout Ben and his backpack for the assistance).

Strasbourg is famous for their teddy bear Christmas decorations! My favorite purchase was a small Christmas house modeled after a real Strasbourg building. Last year, we bought a similar one in Germany with Ben’s family, and now we’ve started a tradition. These little houses will be cherished keepsakes forever.

To balance out the hectic market energy, I booked us a hotel with a wellness spa. If we weren’t at the market, we were indulging in the heated pool, sauna, and hammam before heading out for more shopping and mulled wine. Highly recommend!

Stop 4: Colmar Christmas Market
On our last full day, we drove an hour to Colmar, France, a town often said to resemble Belle’s village in Beauty and the Beast. While Disney has never confirmed it as an inspiration, the charming streets definitely feel like stepping into a storybook.

The Colmar Christmas markets featured 180 chalets, but it was so crowded that we only stayed an hour. (Note to self: avoid Saturday visits!) Social media has undeniably amplified Colmar’s popularity, and while the town is beautiful, it’s not quite built to handle the masses. That said, I’ve heard others who visited on quieter days had a wonderful experience, so timing is everything!

Back to Brussels
On Sunday, we drove back to Brussels in time for my mom to catch one of Ben’s hockey games. She even brought a handmade poster all the way from The States! It was her first time seeing him on the ice, and we chanted and cheered the whole game. The team thought it was really funny!

The next few days, we stayed local, revisiting the Brussels markets (yes, again!) and splitting some delicious food. On her last day, I treated her to my favorite place, Waer Waters, which is a well-known wellness spa within the region. With 23 saunas, 24 pools, and 10 relaxation rooms, it’s easy to see why I’m obsessed. We stuck to the dressed area—although the undressed area is the more popular choice here in Europe. There’s no phones allowed, so you are really forced to unwind for the day. We had hot stone massages, a salt cave experience, and had an amazing meal (delivered by a robot) in between the swimming. It was the perfect way to wrap up an amazing trip, and to decompress before we both had to return to work.
Final Thoughts
Ben and I absolutely loved having my mom here right before the holidays. Although it’ll just be the two of us for Christmas Day, it’s sandwiched between her visit and my dad’s upcoming trip in January, so we’re feeling grateful. And who knows? This might be our last quiet Christmas for a while, so we’re going to soak it all in.
Europe in December is pure magic, and this trip was no exception. If you’re ever considering a Christmas market road trip, I can’t recommend it enough—it’s an experience you’ll never forget.

Disclaimer: there was a recent terrorist attack at a Christmas market in Germany. I have mixed feelings about posting in an effort to be sensitive to the world around me. No family should have to go to the Christmas markets and come home without a member…it is a dark and scary world we live in. I feel very grateful that we got to experience it innocently. Life is precious and it’s difficult to not live in fear when terrible things like this occur.
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Our Tanzania Safari & Zanzibar Getaway


Day 1 of Safari in Tarangire National Park – spot the female lion sleeping behind us! Wrapping up our summer holidays, Ben and I have just returned from our first African country – Tanzania! Over the course of 11 days, we explored some of the most iconic wildlife and wilderness parks in northern Tanzania before heading to the bluest water I’ve ever seen on the nearby island of Zanzibar. This experience was really amazing, kicking off with the thrill of safari and ending with relaxing in the sun with nothing to do but swim and enjoy island life.
Preparation for our adventure
I can confidently say that I have never done so much research, preparation, and shopping for a trip as I did for this one! During my research, I learned that Tanzania is four times larger than Great Britain, seven times larger than England, or a little larger than Texas. Other things I knew were that we’d be close to equator, Swahili is the national language but English is widely spoken, and that they have a female president!
One of the first steps was finding a travel company that I trusted along with an itinerary that covered all that we wanted to see. There are sooo many different companies. I knew that I wanted to explore the Serengeti. I also wanted to visit Tarangire National Park, Ngorongoro Crater, and add on Zanzibar. I used SafariBookings.com to compare itineraries and pricing, and decided to book through Brilliant Safaris.
Next up was booking the flights, applying for our visas, and purchasing travel insurance. Then we were advised to visit a travel & vaccine clinic. Here, we received our mandatory Yellow Fever Vaccine. We also received a safety briefing about all the things we could and couldn’t eat. Additionally, we learned how to protect ourselves against malaria. I’m not going to lie, the visit to the doctor scared me a bit. Malaria is a real concern. We diligently started our malaria pills a day before departure. We have to continue taking them for seven days after returning home. Everywhere we stayed, we had to sleep under mosquito nets!

The mosquito net remains up during the day, and the staff lowers it for you each evening while you’re at dinner. We also picked up some pretty serious bug spray and hydration packets incase we got sick. While it’s not the most glamorous aspect of travel, it’s necessary. When in Tanzania, we had to avoid tap water, ice cubes, and raw vegetables to prevent any unwelcome stomach issues. Only cooked vegetables and thoroughly washed fruits made it to our plates.

Getting briefed at the travel clinic And then came the shopping & packing….packing for this adventure was an exercise in minimalism. There were sooo many things we had to think of – For example, due to the bag restrictions on domestic flights in Tanzania, we each could only bring 1 small backpack and 1 small duffle. This meant we had to be strategic! You are only allowed to bring one small plastic baggy of liquids through the Brussels airport security. So, sunscreen, bug spray, and a few essentials took precedence. The preferred currency in Tanzania for tourists is USD, so we had to be sure to visit the bank last time we were home.
And then the OUTFITS! Anyone who knows me, knows I was very excited for this part. We were advised to wear neutral colors during the safari – white picks up dust, black is too hot for the sun, blue attracts the tsetse flies, and bright colors distract the animals. So we headed to the adventure store to get some staples – safari hats, and anything olive/tan/khaki/gray. The four main things to remember when packing for a safari is comfort, layering, versatility, and neutral colors.

It was super fun shopping for this trip, and then being in the safari vehicle wearing the outfit, the hat, the binoculars ready, camera in hand…I loved it! The journey begins
With all our bags packed, we headed to the Brussels airport. We had a 5 hour layover in Ethiopia, then landed at Kilimanjaro airport 17 hours later (door to door). Upon arrival, we were met by a representative from our safari company as we exited the airport. I have to admit, seeing our names on a sign of a driver always makes me feel fancy LOL. We headed 2 hours from Kilimanjaro airport to Arusha. We went to meet at the safari office to get an overview of our schedule. I didn’t even realize that we’d be driving on the other side of the road.
We were then taken to Gran Melia in Arusha, and it was here that we began to appreciate the true meaning of Tanzanian hospitality. Upon our arrival we were handed hot, lemon-scented towels and hibiscus tea. This grand hotel has consistently been voted the best hotel in Arusha for many years. It was super nice to spend the afternoon poolside and eat dinner on the rooftop. We honestly could’ve used one more night at this beautiful hotel.

Vacation mode activated! Safari day 1! Tarangire National Park

We started bright and early with a long drive to Tarangire National Park the next morning. Tarangire NP is often referred to as the “home of the elephants.” As we entered the park, the excitement immediately began and I was struck by the sheer number of elephants, soooo many of them accompanied by their babies!!!

The safari vehicle roofs come off, so you get to stand up in the vehicle while searching for animals. It seemed that every where I looked, there was wildlife. On our first game drive, we found zebras, wildebeest, monkeys, ostriches, antelopes, baboons, giraffes, and even a few hard ones to find like leopards, female lions, and a python.

female lion sleeping in a tree 
the little baby elephant crossing the road…on the other side of this photo was me in full on tears. I was so happy 
giraffes were everywhere we looked 
A mom and her baby crossing the road 
monkey hanging on a tree 
It looks like they were posing for me! Aside from the animals, we were mesmerized by the landscape of Tarangire – dotted with ancient baobab trees, with their massive trunks. We even got to have a hot meal underneath the trees, overlooking a small creek filled with elephants.

All the food we ate was so delicious After our first full day on safari, we headed through the mountainous range to Acacia Farm Lodge, where we were greeted by 12 singing staff members, hot rags with soap to wash off the dust, and with fresh juice—an unforgettable welcome. We had our own housekeeper and butler assigned to us, and were spoiled to the max!

The staff wrote us notes in flowers each night The never-ending Serengeti
Next, we made our way to the Serengeti, one of Africa’s most iconic national parks.

This is the main attraction that brings most people to Tanzania. We spent safari days 2 & 3 here…and only covered a fraction. The Serengeti NP is 5,700 square miles—larger than the state of Connecticut!!! It’s home to an incredible variety of wildlife, including 75% of all lions in Africa. We were fortunate to witness lions in their element, including the “Kings of the Jungle” male lions. We saw many up close, some with flowing manes, and others younger males.

We were sooo close to them. It was awesome! 
Picture to reference how close you can get to the animals in their natural habitats. I don’t think I could ever go to a zoo again after this! One of my favorite moments from our time spent in the Serengeti was when we spotted a cheetah in a hunting stance. It was such an amazing moment because we were the only vehicle around. Our driver spotted the cheetah, and drove over quietly. At first, we only saw the mother. I took out my camera and as I put it up to my face to take the picture, the baby appeared.

Absolutely magical! Usually female cheetahs have 4-5 babies, but our guide suspected that this was the only baby to survive. This is pretty common when the cheetahs cannot find enough food to feed themselves and their cubs.
Another thing that made this trip so great was our guide, Joshua.

Joshua & Ben right before we entered the Serengeti officially His knowledge of the park and its inhabitants was unparalleled. Over the course of our time in the Serengeti, we drove 10-12 hours a day, scouring the landscape for wildlife.

Our time was spent in the North and Central areas. Some people spend weeks here without seeing a leopard, but on our third day, we had the incredible luck of spotting five in a single day.

shhh he’s sleeping 
climbing into the tree! love the elephants faded in the background 
another leopard on the move! Joshua’s expertise and connections meant we were always in the right place at the right time—like when we patiently waited to see a black rhino and her baby in the Ngorongoro Crater, an experience that still leaves us in awe.
Other animals we saw here were antelopes (1 baby that had been birthed hours if not minutes ago), hippos (#1 killer of people in Africa), elephants (smallest baby elephants I’ve ever seen), giraffes, ostriches, warfhogs, hyenas, leopards, dik diks, crocodiles, lizards, eagles, buffalo (#2 killer of people in Africa), zebras, flamingos, impalas, endless birds, and more.

hyena 
dik dik 
hippos We enjoyed another wonderful lunch here under the trees. It’s incredible how there are moments when safari vehicles are all around, and then other times, it feels like we’re the only ones for miles.

Sleeping in the Serengeti
One of the highlights of our entire experience (and most terrifying things we’ve ever done) was staying at Nyumbani Collection. Nyumbani is the Swahili word for “home,” and is a luxury camp in the Serengeti.


This intimate camp, with a maximum of 25 guests, offered an unparalleled sense of immersion in the wild. Upon arrival, we had to sign a consent form about how we agreed the camp is not liable for any wildlife attacks or poisonous bites. We LITERALLY had to have a member of the Maasai tribe escort us while carrying a spear to and from our tent every time we wanted to leave it, to ensure our safety amongst this wildlife. Naturally, there were 10 tents and we were in tent #10, the furthest walk away.

This was the moment when I thought to myself, “Okay Liv you have adventured a bit too hard” The main concern they stated was lions and hippos. So each time we walked to/from our tent my heart rate was probably 39874937 beats per minute. We spent two nights, and not only did we wake up to the sound of lions roaring, but on the second morning we found a buffalo grazing just 30 feet away on our walk to breakfast.

this isn’t the exact buffalo we saw – this is a buffalo we saw earlier that day while in the safety of our vehicle lol. just sharing a visual of the animal we saw on our WALK to breakfast I tried to remain calm, but Ben said I have never squeezed his hand harder. The camp also was a really unique experience for us because each night we had to sleep with pouches of warm water just to keep warm.

There’s also reliance on a generator for electricity which meant limited amenities, but that only added to the charm— for example you could only blow-dry your hair between 5-7 pm. We also had amazing meals here each morning and evening. So even though I had my “I didn’t think we were going to make it” moment, I still would do it all over again. Definitely the coolest most unique stay we’ve ever had.

can you really call it camping when you have a chef, a shower, and a toilet? lol 
Ngorongoro Crater: A world within a world
Our fourth and last day on safari was spent in the Ngorongoro Crater, one of the seven natural wonders of Africa and the largest unbroken caldera in the world. It is home to the highest concentration of animals in Africa. Here, we saw our first black rhino, completing our quest to see the “Big Five.” A few hours later we also found a different rhino with her baby.

the rhino nursing her baby in the distance – it is very difficult to find rhinos, let alone get close, so we were super happy to be able to see them from far away! The crater’s unique geography and abundant resources make it a haven for wildlife, including elephants that come here towards the end of their lives, earning it the nickname “elephant graveyard.”
Ngorongoro is not just about wildlife; it’s also a place filled with history. The first human skull and stone tool were discovered here, and the Maasai people have lived in this region for generations, surviving in conditions that are as harsh as they are beautiful. We had an amazing hot lunch outside, and everyone sitting in the hot sun was looking at us underneath our canopy.

We returned back to Acacia Farm Lounge for one night, where Ben surprised me with a romantic private dinner.


For our last meal before we headed off the mainland, the staff set up a private lunch by the pool for us.



Really impeccable. I seriously felt like we were on our honeymoon!
Ending in Zanzibar
After the intensity of our safari, we were really looking forward to unwinding in Zanzibar. We have had so many amazing trips together, but there is nothing like relaxing on a beach. This small island of the east coast of the mainland is a hotspot right now, especially for Europeans during the summer holidays.

It was a crazy travel day to say the least- we arrived at a very small outdoor airport (if you can even call it that). We received boarding passes with incorrect names on them at first, then the second round had my last name spelt incorrectly but they told me not to worry about it…the security measures were less than efficient and we had a long delay because the president of Zanzibar required the runway. After landing, we had the worlds most chaotic 2 hour drive to our resort. I was happy to have arrived, and looking forward to spending five days and four nights on this beautiful island, at one hotel instead of the constant moving around each night.
I make it a point to be honest about my experiences (highlighting the good and the bad), so I must mention that I wouldn’t recommend visiting Zanzibar until the beaches are better managed, if that ever happens. The primary draw for many visitors, including us, is the stunning blue water. We stayed at Hotel Z, but we found it challenging to enjoy the beach due to constant attention from locals trying to sell various services and goods. From the moment we walked from our beach chairs to the water, we were approached with offers to braid our hair (which I eventually gave in to), provide massages, rent jetskis, sell coconuts, and more. Even while swimming, the interruptions persisted. Additionally, the beach is adjacent to a public access point, leading to a lot of activity with boats and horseback riders, which made it difficult to relax and enjoy the sea.The island also experiences frequent power outages, anywhere from 1 to 10 times a day, which adds to the unpredictability of the experience. It felt like a bit of an Instagram versus reality moment.
Despite these challenges, we made the best of our time and enjoyed a fantastic trip, mainly relaxing by the pool with a beautiful view of the beach.

hard to complain when your view looks like this Our hotel breakfast each morning had the most amazing view of the exact image of a beach you want to see —soft white sand, crystal-clear waters, and the gentle sound of waves crashing on the shore. I loveddddd having my coffee here.

The staff here were also very kind hard working people. I think I heard the term “Hakuna Matata” one hundred times while we were there! We went for a walk on the beach each morning to see the star fish, went to happy hour on the rooftop each evening, and soaked up as MUCH sunshine as we could because we don’t often see the sun in Brussels.



We went on one excursion to go swimming with the dolphins and snorkeling. This was QUITE the experience, which Ben refers to as our boat ride from hell. This is where Ben had his “I don’t think we’re going to make it” moment. It started off really crazy because 9 of us boarded a very small boat with a little canopy.

We braced some pretty high waves until we approached an area with at least 30 other little boats zooming around. “Swimming with the dolphins” was taken very literally – when we jumped into the middle of the Indian Ocean when we would see dolphins. Here were the instructions received:
“When I say jump, you jump”
*30 seconds later*
“JUMP”
It was so crazy and an adrenaline rush. For someone who is TERRIFIED of sharks, I cannot believe I jumped in the middle of the ocean. But my love for dolphins outweighed my fears I suppose. I jumped on three separate occasions and Ben jumped once. I really can’t wait to see the GoPro footage of this LOL.

Then we continued about 30 more minutes to a snorkeling area and sand bar. The water was SO clear!

After our excursion, we spent the final two days unwinding—we enjoyed a couples massage, relaxed by the pool, and truly savored the quality time together.

Our last night! Reflecting on the Reality of Tanzania
Agriculture is the country’s number one source of income, with tourism following closely behind. Everywhere we went, the warmth and hospitality of the people were evident. The staff at our accommodations knew us by name, and we were constantly asked for feedback—proof of the country’s dedication to making every visitor feel welcomed and valued.
While our experience was luxurious, it’s important to acknowledge that Tanzania is a developing country. We drove through many cities where people live in modest huts or brick structures, herding cattle, and relying on agriculture and spices for medicine. The contrast between our experience and the daily lives of the locals was striking and humbling. It served as a reminder of the many layers of travel—how it can open your eyes to the beauty of the world, but also to the challenges that many people face. I have to admit that I felt a little guilty driving through these towns and going through a secured gate to find myself at a 4/5 star resort.
In Summary
If you’re considering a safari, it’s important to account for the time spent in the vehicle and the road conditions. While some travelers choose to fly directly in and out of the Serengeti, which is a costly option, be prepared for long drives on challenging roads. During my safari, I found it necessary to take anti-nausea medication each day to manage the travel.
We booked a private safari, and I highly recommend it. The experience was tailored to our preferences, allowing us to customize our schedule and activities. Although it is a more expensive option, the ability to personalize the safari was invaluable. For instance, one day we spent an hour and fifteen minutes observing a herd of elephants as we waited for them to cross. This level of flexibility really made the safari experience.

I also want to address a common misconception Americans have about Africa. It’s important to remember that Africa is a diverse continent made up of 54 countries, so it’s more accurate to refer to specific countries rather than generalizing about the entire continent. Many Americans—and even some Europeans—perceive Africa as predominantly impoverished and dangerous. Before my trip, I received numerous warnings to be cautious, avoid wearing branded clothing, and leave my jewelry at home. While it’s always wise to be mindful of your valuables wherever you travel, I found that most of our time was spent with our guide or at secure hotel properties. During our evenings in Zanzibar, we ventured out three times and only encountered friendly locals. While there were beggars and some signs of poverty, similar situations can be seen in many cities, including Brussels. I have to tell you that the only time I felt in danger was with the Buffalo encounter and the boat ride – neither of which had anything to do with the people!
As I sit here once again writing about yet another incredible experience, I’m filled with awe. I can’t believe the life I get to live and that I get to do it all with Ben. I had always envisioned going on safari maybe in retirement, but I’m so glad we didn’t wait. This adventure has been truly unforgettable. Ben and I had an amazing time—searching for wildlife, “camping” in the Serengeti, immersing ourselves in the local culture, and sampling an array of new foods. Here, food is a profound expression of love; the more you eat, the more you embrace their hospitality. Traveling abroad has pushed me to try sooo many new things, and food is just one of them.
If you’re ever considering looking for an experience that will leave you changed, look no further than Tanzania. I’d be happy to answer anyone’s questions more in depth about our experience and booking a safari! Also PLS be prepared for me to make this my entire personality – we are talking safari themed (FUTURE) nursery, my FUTURE child’s 1st birthday party theme, everything.

safari mode activated Thanks for reading ❤
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Unforgettable July Adventures in Austria, Italy, and the Netherlands

July was an incredibly special month—one that left me in awe of all the amazing experiences I had. I’m still in disbelief at how much I packed into those 31 days…From visiting three different countries, hosting six visitors, attending Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour, experiencing my first Formula 1 event in the paddock, to dancing for 12 straight hours at Tomorrowland, July was unforgettable! According to my health app, I walked 305,114 steps.
Austria with Sam & Alex
Our girls’ trip to Austria was nothing short of perfect—well, except for Alex’s phone breaking midway through the trip when her reflexes kicked in and she caught an umbrella before falling on a table full of people— but we can just ignore that part. After visiting London, the girls came to Brussels briefly and I was able to show them my neighborhood and a tour of the city.

walking through Brussels Then we flew together to Vienna, where we spent a day and a half exploring the city before hopping on a three-hour train to Salzburg. The train ride was breathtaking, with mountains all around. We had schnitzel in our hands at every opportunity (quite literally Sam and I ate schnitzel like 3x in 4 days LOL).

one of the many aforementioned schnitzels We took a day trip to Hallstatt, the charming town that inspired Arendelle from Disney’s Frozen. Driving through the Lakes District on the way, we were looking out the window at the crystal blue waters (and then I started thinking to myself how I want to come back here).

Hallstatt, Austria The highlight was undoubtedly the Sound of Music Tour, where we visited the iconic sites from the film. Interestingly, we learned that while the movie is a beloved classic in the U.S., it’s not popular in Austria. Most Austrians haven’t even seen it! But that didn’t stop us from fan-girling, singing along on the bus, and reliving our childhood favorite.

It was a rainy day, but here we are in front of the Gazebo from “16 going on 17” scene From starting The Sound of Music on the plane ride at the exact same time to bringing our mattresses into the same room at our Airbnb because we didn’t want to waste a second of our time together, we had an absolute blast. I’ve known these girls for over 10 years, and we talk nearly every day. This trip was a beautiful reminder of how lucky I am to have such amazing friends.

I would also REALLY recommend visiting Austria if you’ve ever even considered it. It was almost if Italy, Germany, and Switzerland had a baby. Boom, Austria!
Milan & Lake Como with Marisa
Ben and I headed out to Milan just a few days after Alex/Sam left! We explored the famous Duomo di Milano, which dates back to the 14th century. There are over 3,400 statues, and Gothic architecture is my personal favorite.

us in front of the Duomo at night! Marisa managed to fly standby to meet me in Milan, and seeing Taylor together was beyond incredible

While I wouldn’t call myself a die-hard Swiftie, I couldn’t pass up the chance to experience the highest-grossing tour of all time. Taylor was an amazing performer, and every moment of the concert was pure magic!

The best part was that I managed to get the tickets on presale, so our tickets were only $105 each. With the Ticketmaster drama in the U.S., people have been paying hundreds of dollars, so we definitely got lucky. I love to see how events are in other countries too. For example, the only food option we could purchase was potato chips? And a bottle of water was literally 2 euros. You would literally never be able to buy a water bottle for $2.10 at any stadium in the US.
Although Milan isn’t my favorite city in Italy (you really only need 1-2 days there), we had some delicious authentic Italian food, amazing coffee, did some site seeing, and took a day trip to Lake Como.

Our original plan to spend the day on a boat in Varenna had to be changed due to a landslide that closed off that part of the lake. Instead, we found ourselves on a small local beach where we enjoyed the best meal of the trip.

Marisa didn’t make her standby flight back to Chicago, so she ended up flying with me back to Brussels for a night (lucky me!) and got to see our apartment.
The Netherlands with Sarah & Zach
After dropping Marisa off at the airport and heading into the office, I came home to find Sarah and Zach had arrived. The ZOBS (Zach, Olivia, Ben, Sarah) Euro trip was underway! We had been talking about this trip for over a year. They started their journey in Italy to celebrate their first wedding anniversary, then joined us in Belgium for a week. We played games, barbecued, and tried new restaurants. They even took some day trips around Belgium, including a visit to the Stella Brewery with Ben while I was at work.

Our Thursday night spot – Plux! We ended their trip with a weekend in Amsterdam. Although there’s a train, we opted to drive since the tickets were quite expensive. I don’t usually revisit cities (there’s so much world to see!), but Amsterdam is always worth a repeat.

The vibe there is so relaxed, the museums are fantastic, and the food—especially the Dutch pancakes and stroopwafels—is amazing. On Sunday, we visited the famous windmills at Zaanse Schans. Being part Dutch, I jokingly told everyone I was connecting with my ancestry!

A fun side note: After Alex left Belgium, she met her husband for a cruise that ended in Amsterdam. Although she was only there for four hours before flying back to the States, we managed to meet up for a quick hug and a classic Amsterdam canal photo. It was a crazy but amazing moment, especially since we’ve now visited multiple European cities together, starting with our study abroad in Barcelona in the summer of 2017.

this still feels fake Formula 1
This season, Komatsu became the principal partner for Williams Racing, which has sparked a newfound interest in Formula 1 for me. I wasn’t very familiar with F1 before this partnership, but now I’m genuinely hooked! While F1 has always been popular globally, its recent surge in popularity can be credited to the Netflix series Drive to Survive.
I was tasked with organizing an employee raffle to distribute tickets for the Belgian Grand Prix, so I didn’t initially plan to attend. But when our GM of Marketing invited me to the paddock for Friday’s testing day, I couldn’t pass up the opportunity. The experience was incredible—I got to meet both drivers, see the car up close in the garage, listen in as the testing engineer discussed performance with the team, and enjoy unlimited food and drinks. Brad Pitt was also in the paddock filming his new F1 movie, but unfortunately, I didn’t spot him!

Tomorrowland
There really aren’t even words to describe this experience. We walked 34,000 steps in one day and danced for 12 hours straight at Tomorrowland (I am ashamed at how much Red Bull I drank that day). More than 400,000 people from over 200 countries came together to celebrate Tomorrowland’s 20-year anniversary edition, which revolved around the theme LIFE.

The organization, the food, the stages, the music, the performers, and the vibes were absolutely immaculate. I never thought of myself as a music festival person, but with Tomorrowland being right here in Belgium and winning “World’s Best Music Festival” for so many years, I knew I had to go.

It was an experience I’ll never forget. I don’t know how people can handle more than one day of it though, because the entire next day I was so exhausted. One of my favorite moments was when Ben put me on his shoulders. I never thought I would get to experience that but he offered, and it was so cool!

Our last visitor for July
To wrap up the month, my mother-in-law visited, and we spent some wonderful quality time together in Belgium! This was her third visit to see us, but her first time staying in our new apartment (yes, I’m a bit obsessed with our new place!). We indulged in allllll the local foods since she can eat gluten and dairy here—something she can’t typically do in the U.S. (don’t get me started on the chemicals pumped into our food in America).
One of her wishes was to visit the Anne Frank House in Amsterdam, so Ben took her for a two-day trip while I stayed back to work and take care of Mallow.

Mallow watching them leave On Saturday, we took a day trip to Ghent where we explored the 12th-century Gravensteen castle, went on a canal ride, and had a typical Belgian waffle.

On Sunday, Gina and I spent a full day together at my favorite wellness center, Waer Waters. We relaxed in saunas, hammams, infrared rooms, silent zones, and thermal baths. We also enjoyed hot plunge pools, swim ponds, and jacuzzis. The best part is that no phones are allowed! We were able to fully unwind without worrying about what we looked like. Plus, it’s a unique experience dining in your robe at all the restaurants—it adds to the whole atmosphere of relaxation.
Recap
If you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading! It was a whirlwind of a month, and I loved every minute of it. I’m so grateful for the opportunities I had and the people I got to share them with. But for now, the Ratner airbnb is closed!
We have one more BIG trip on the horizon, and then it’s time for hockey season to kick off, which means we’ll be staying more local to Brussels and Mallow won’t hate us every time we take out the suitcases.
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27th Birthday Reflection
Yesterday I turned 27, officially joining the “upper 20s” club! It’s funny to think back on how I once believed people at this age had everything figured out. I also imagined I’d be a mother by now and certainly never thought I’d be living in Europe.
Reflecting on the past year, I’m amazed by the experiences I’ve had and the things I’ve accomplished. I checked off the number one item on my bucket list: hot air ballooning in Cappadocia. I visited six new countries, hosted nine visitors, stood by four of my beautiful friends on their wedding days, joined one of those brides on part of her honeymoon in Greece, prioritized my health, earned an “Exceeds Expectations” on my performance review, and made countless memories in Brussels.

Birthdays have always been significant for me, thanks to my mom, who always went above and beyond to make them special growing up (we’re talking ponies, water parks, camping, crowns, karaoke, etc.).

A picture of me on my 1st birthday….and we wonder why I am extra lol Ben continues this tradition, and thanks to him I had an incredible birthday weekend! In our friend group here, three of us have birthdays in the same week. On Friday night, we celebrated at a Middle Eastern restaurant that serves food family style and turns into a party after 9 pm. Saturday was perfect: Ben and I went out to brunch, visited the farmers market, took a walk in my favorite park with Mallow, and he made me a southern meal with an adorable printed menu!

BBQ food is hard to find in Brussels, so he made his own BBQ sauce and found a butcher to get pork for slow cooking on the grill all afternoon. On Sunday, we visited Pairi Daiza, known as “Europe’s Best Zoo.” It was a unique experience, feeling like we were truly walking through the animals’ habitats rather than seeing them behind cages. A lemur almost jumped on my shoulder! My favorite animals were the elephants and the giant pandas. We ended the day with our favorite animal, Mallow.
I’m so grateful for the friends who celebrated with me, everyone who texted or called, and especially my husband for his thoughtfulness and efforts to make the weekend special. We’ve now celebrated (at least) one of each holiday here, just the two of us, and he always makes it memorable. Despite my worries about feeling homesick, I felt all the love and support from everyone important to me. Plus, I have visitors coming this week that I’m VERY excited about!
May and June were incredibly busy with work and personal travel. I spent a week in Italy for work in May with our Senior Leadership Program, then took a personal trip to NYC/NJ for a family wedding, road-tripped to Virginia to see my mom, grandma, and auntie, and then flew back to Chicago for another wedding! After returning, I went straight back to work and four days later left for a week in Sweden with our European Master Program.

There’s no slowing down in July either. (Are we shocked?) Two of my high school best friends (Alex and Sam) arrive this week, and we’re heading to Austria for a long weekend – Sound of Music tour, here we come! The following weekend, my friend Marisa and I will meet in Milan for Taylor Swift’s ERAS TOUR!!!! We’ll also take a day trip to the famous Lake Como. A few days after that, my cousin Sarah and her husband arrive, and we’re going to Amsterdam for the weekend. Although I don’t typically repeat cities, Amsterdam is one of my favorites and only a 2.5-hour car ride away! It will be both of their first times in Europe, and I am so excited to show them where we live. Then, the weekend after that, I’m going to Tomorrowland, one of the world’s largest and most exclusive electronic dance music festivals, which I somehow managed to get tickets to. Finally, my mother-in-law comes to visit the day after and I’m looking forward to the quality time together.
With so much happening in the world—the ongoing war in Ukraine, the crisis in Palestine, the uncertainty in America with the upcoming election— I acknowledge the privilege of such experiences and express my empathy towards those facing hardship. I make it my goal to never take any day of this life for granted. Thankful thankful thankful!
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Expat Assignment Extended!
I am a really big believer that God has a plan & that the right thing will always happen.
On March 7, I broke out my journal for the first time in a long time to make a pros and cons list of staying in Europe verses moving back to America. While I’ve always known that this chapter in my life has an expiration date, there’s a certain magic in dreaming of staying forever in Europe. I wrote about how I need to shift my mindset back to the fact that I am only here temporarily, but how it would be nice to have just a biiiiit more time. Background: typically expat assignments at my company are 3 years long, however I initially expressed that I was only interested in a 2 year assignment (for some reason committing to 2 years felt a lot less intimidating than 3 years of my life).
Just a little bit over a week later on March 15, I was offered an extension on my assignment to stay through the end of May 2025 (instead of January 2025)!!! This came as a shock to me because my department already had a planned restructure for 2025, so I didn’t think there was even room for an extension. However the department is going to be having some internal changes and me staying a little bit longer will provide more stability and the chance to finish up on some of my projects. So now I get four more months of working and living in Europe! YAY!
I was really in awe when my boss asked me, I almost agreed to it on the spot! But then I was like OK Liv hold your horses, you need to discuss with Ben first. Honestly, I could’ve come home and he could’ve told me that he is already set to go home in January, which would’ve been totally fair. Instead, he was overjoyed, super proud of me, and excited to be able to play a second full season of hockey here. Although we both miss home, we realize that life here has a LOT to offer us.
Another exciting career-related thing that happened this week was that I met with Komatsu America to start the discussion about my future role upon returning home. They informed me that they will put together a full repatriation plan and I will know my start date, title, and all the other details by the end of this calendar year! That was such a relief to hear, considering 2025 feels like one big question mark to me. There is so much to figure out and sometimes I get overwhelmed if I think too far into the future. Next year is going to be filled with lots of life changes, but I am so thankful to do it all alongside Ben and the support of family and friends.
Shorter blog post today, but wanted to share this excited update with everyone following along ❤







































