Living in a new country often brings about unique experiences and challenges. There are so many things I find myself doing now that I never thought I would. It’s a journey filled with moments that make me pause and wonder, “What in the world am I doing?” I thought it would be fun to share some!

Trusting strangers with my dog in Belgium every time I travel.

Back in the US, we had friends and family to watch Mallow. There were also options like doggy daycares and apps like “Rover” for finding someone to watch her. However, with trusted friends/family conveniently located in the area, emergencies were never a concern. Moving to Belgium changed that. This year, we actively sought out strangers on Facebook to care for Mallow during our travels. Meeting them beforehand has become a pre-flight ritual, and we’re grateful to have found three trusted sitters who provide regular updates and pictures during our travels!

Adopting a “Whatever comes on the meal” mentality 

I’ve never considered myself a picky eater, but I used to be the girl always requesting substitutions or alterations to my meals. Whether due to a language barrier or a cultural norm, I’ve embraced the European approach of eating whatever is served. This is a stark contrast to the American dining scene, where customization is the norm. Of course allergies are the exception (I am allergic to almonds so I have to be super careful).

Walking everywhere.

A 35-minute walk to the restaurant for dinner, regardless of the weather or distance? Absolutely. Rain or shine, hot or cold, walking has become my preferred mode of transportation. From grocery shopping and dining out to visiting bars, getting coffee, or heading to the local hardware store – I walk everywhere. The only time I opt for driving is to and from work, and if the distance is too great, I take public transit. Traffic here is also awful. In fact, last year Brussels was named the city with the 14th worst traffic in the world and the 7th worst in Europe.

Using simple words and phrases in English.

Since most people living in Brussels are from all over the world (my friend group alone consists of people from Belgium, Turkey, Kenya, Italy, Albania, Brazil, Finland, Canada) English is our common language. However, with English not being the first language for many, I’ve adapted by using simpler words and phrases. Expressions like “piece of cake” or “cold turkey” often end up with people looking confused. Most people here actually speak at least 2 languages fluently, and it is not uncommon for people to speak 3, 4, 5, or more languages. I’ve also adjusted my vocabulary by opting for simpler words like “strange” instead of “peculiar”. Interestingly, this adjustment sometimes leads to momentary lapses in memory when I’m back in The States or speaking with native English speakers.

Paying for water AND to use the bathroom.

Yes, it’s true. In most European countries you have to pay for your water. When you request water at a restaurant, you’re usually presented with the choice between still or sparkling (I always opt for still). At restaurants, access to the bathrooms (often referred to as water closets or toilets) is usually complimentary. However, the scenario shifts when you find yourself at a bar during the late evening, enjoying drinks. Even in this social setting where you’re a customer, there’s a restroom fee. It’s one of those nuances of daily life here that takes some getting used to.

Living in Europe has totally changed up my lifestyle, making me way more open to different ways of living. I’ve come to appreciate that the way I grew up and what feels normal to me is just one of many ways to live. It’s been quite the eye-opener!